First Date - Extremely scared?

Question

So i had this crush on this guy for quite a long time, and he finally one day, we told each other who we liked, turns out to fine. I really love him and think of him all the time, while he tells me lots of stuff and says that he loves me and can't stop thinking about me...

I've been dating my first boyfriend (which is him) for a week now (i'm also his first), and he asked me out. He told me it's today, 11 o clock AM. It's 10 something now and i'm afraid. He's away on MSN and the last time I talked to him was yesterday night at 11 o clock, he's always away on MSN isnce then, i'm scared i'll be stood up and everything... Yesterday he told me that he wants to be there with me, and that's all he wanted, and i haven't talked to him since last night. I'm still afraid that he'll stand me up, things will go wrong, etc.... What should I do? I'm worried, scared and nervous.

Answer 1

He was probably sleeping, and is getting ready right now! You should do the same

Answer 2

Well, judging from the time, I'm probably too late with an answer, but hopefully you weren't stood up or disappointed. If in the unhappy event that you were, you haven't really lost anything. Just move on. If not, I hope you had a good time. It's natural to be nervous on a first date, but as you get to know the person longer, that will fade away and your self confidence will return. Good luck!

Answer 3

so, did you actually exist before you where boyfriend/ girlfriend?
Did you have hobbies and other friends and a family, or did you just stare blankly at a wall until he came along?
You are a person in your own writ....don't throw that way ever....you can survive with or without him...infact, that is what makes a relationship much stronger...if both people are strong enough to survive without each other independently...they add more to the relationship.
Stand up....be stong enough to be by yourself...and then enjoy the time you are together...but don't waste away your own free time....thats important too....and it looks like he knows that already....you should follow that example//

Answer 4

it extremely is as much as the decide. If a guy beats his spouse he could be prosecuted as a violent kin abuser and might by no potential be allowed to possess a handgun. So is there a distinction with a sister beating a sister? Do your superb with the counseling. With success, you will land up on probation. whether that's judged basically mutual wrestle the judgement would be much less harsh than for one guy or woman being the agressor.

Answer 5

You'll survive. Usually your first 50 dates with anybody are all practice. Don't hang any heavy expectations on it, just have a nice time.

Don't be clingy, don't constantly check how he feels about you, don't make it seem like you need to get married---all this will certainly kill the mood with a guy. Just be friends, take the stress off!

Answer 6

well first off a week is kinda to soon to say love and u guys r already dating so u should be past the point of fearing going out somewhere with the person u r dating

Answer 7

First of all, take a deep breath and stop worrying. Whatever happens will happen, and there is nothing you can do to change it. Don't work yourself into a frenzy over an unknown end...Good Luck!

Answer 8

if you have a cell call him now lol! like ask him to leave when you leave and stay there till you both arive (on the cell phone) so you know for sure.. simple as that.. you shouldnt be going any place without one anyways neither should he.. especially if ur under the age of 18 (haha i sound old im 17 but its true lol!)

Answer 9

Wow. Relax. Smoke a doob. It will be fine. Did you consider that he just left himself logged in? Have fun.

Answer 10

GO BE YOU AND HAVE FUN
if he liked u enough 4 u 2 b his bf then um duuuhhh
NO he wount stand u up

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