Ok long story short. I live with my grandparents and aunt in NV and my aunt hit, kicked, and shoved me. I told my mom and she said don't tell anything to my grandma cause she could get really stressed and have another heart attack. But my grandma found out and I have decided to go live back with my mom. The only thing is that I have to share a room with my brother cause they changed the hole house after I left and my room has my sisters in it now. She won't give me my own room back and go back to how it used to be. My brother and I really don't get along no matter how hard i try to ignore him and i just want a place to go to so i can get away from all the yelling and screaming in my house cause i have 4 siblings. Here with my grandparents I have my own room and they told my aunt never to touch me again, but she will probably start something in the future which will stress out my grandma. And here i can take care of my grandma incase anything happens. What should i do?
2007-11-23 12:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If it were me in that situation, I think I would choose to stay at my grandmother's place until the aunt did something bad again (hopefully never). Sharing a bedroom with your brother at your age gives you almost zero privacy, and probably isn't even appropriate.
Whatever you decide to do, I hope things get better for you soon! :-]
2007-11-23 13:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. But I would take my grandmother with me. Ask your mother once again if you can have your room back, so that your grandmother could have it. Try to get alonge with your brother as if God were right beside you. He would not want fighting inside a (hopefully) loving home. Make a bad situation into a good one. See the light, no matter how small or big of one, in everyone. Remember you are worth protecting. This is not about your abuseve aunt, or anyone else for that matter. Ask if you could bunk with your sisters if you can't handle your brother, also remember that even though this is about you and only you, others are invaled in this, making sacrafices for you, so be thankfull and make a little sacrafices for them. Good luck :)
2007-11-23 21:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lonsome Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you are with your grandmother to help her out but you can tell her that if your aunt messes with you again you are going to charge her with abuse, and that you love her. Your mother must feel overwhelmed as well if she put you in with your brother or she is counting on you to help take care of your grandmother. Just make the best of it and if your aunt does start bothering you start screaming and perhaps that will be enough for her the first time you do that and she won't again. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-23 21:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest a sleeping aid. It might help you sleep through the situation.
2007-11-23 21:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jima 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your siblings and tell them how you really feel if possible fake crying and show strong emotion towards the subject :P
2007-11-23 20:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋