This guy i'm dating says and does ALL the right things. It's like he knows exactly what I want him to say! Does this mean he is a player or a bad boy? I'm falling for him fast and hard. He claims he's fallen for me. We only met a 3 weeks ago. I'm up for playing "the game". What do i need to know? I'm 24 but i don't have a lot of experience. How can I keep him interested? This guy is sooooooo gorgeous, he's what i've been dreaming about!!!!
2007-11-23 12:46:11 · 11 answers · asked by luvandlight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down. He may be playing you like a violin. In other words, he may be the one taming you!
There's more than just "bad boy" danger here. I don't have much experience either, but I've heard that abusers often start out sweeping you off your feet, then end up punching you in the face. Go real slow here, and beware.
If he can't stand to go slow, he's not worth it, and I say don't get entangled with him.
2007-11-23 12:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol, hahaha, hes a player!! If you play the game, just know that you will for sure lose! And no, you can't tame a bad boy unless you get him invested more and then pulll away from him first. In other words, if for sure you want him to like you, call him tomarrow and say that you can't be friends with him anymore since you like him too much, then avoid him for the next month or two. avoid=not talking, only smiling and NOT TALKING TO HIM when you see him, believe me, if he is a player, he will have a weakness for those who leave him first, especially if he is gorgeous and says the right things. He won't understand why its not working.
Just be prepared for the standard trick of him chasing after other women to make you jeaulous routine, its a standard in our playbook like the blitz in football. The more you resist, the more he will want you.
I would be worried about other guys getting pissed off at me, but you probably don't have the strenght to resist anyway.
2007-11-23 20:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by davy c 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surely you should communicate with each other and know if he means what he says as much as you do. If someone is good.. does that mean he's bad? Come to your senses, and go for your dreams. You can keep him interested by asking him if he dreams about you, and if he's in love with you. Dating is a 'game', but make sure you both win. It's time to talk heart to heart. Talk to him, and tell him how you feel. Get to know his family too. See how you mix with them. If he's not a player then his family will be your indicator. Let them tell you about him. Good Luck to you.
Remember you have to believe in your dreams if they are to happen.
Believe in yourself and believe in him. And you're halfway home
to making your dreams come true.
2007-11-23 20:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Oral Guy wants to find a bi girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but you all think you can and then you get stuck in a a downward spiral and your life gets turned upside down and you wonder how you ended up in a relationship with an abusive bum- conveniently you all forget that your entire family and most of your friends warned you
2007-11-23 20:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is exactly what you need
maybe you need a "bad boy" to help make you more outgoing and stuff
if he says hes fallen for you maybe play a little harder to get, to see how interested he is, if hes not interested enough to come get you, hes probably not the right person
2007-11-23 20:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah but what makes him bad?
And you girls never want to tame him, secretly you all crave the drama. So later on you can go to your frinds and complain/talk about the stuff he does....just so you can have something to talk about.
So enjoy your "bad boy". LoL!
2007-11-23 20:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by MrRiches 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. i thought that i could change
my ex. it worked at first but in the
end, he was the same bad boy.
it's really not possible to change
a person so i think it's best to not
try. good luck :)
2007-11-23 20:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by kayla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it kind of seems like he is a player
2007-11-23 20:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by /\/\@GG!3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grab him and keep a leesh on to him lol
2007-11-23 20:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is what attracts the girls, but they never succeed.
2007-11-23 20:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋