when i see this girl in person she is so happy and gives me hugs, she says that i better text her "for shure". and then when i do she will only text back for ahile and hen stop, or she'll text me like an hour later. so whats up? what should i do?
2007-11-23 12:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by Tom B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try using the telephone.
2007-11-23 12:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. She obviously doesn't have the time to devote to you or courtesy NOT to lead you on. Go with your gut and forget about her.
I believe that all your attention should be on the person in front of you. If she's taking way too long to answer, she is probably texting, etc., with others at the same time. I hate when people do that. It makes me feel they have forgotten me, and I have better things to do than wait around for them to say something.
2007-11-23 20:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by YOUR MOM ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may be doing this to as many people as possible. That is why she leaves you hanging She got interested in someone else. She sounds like someone who needs a lot of attention and she leads guys on just so much to keep you around, but you don't get too close. She does not sound like the one for you.
Gameplayers are fun and challenging, but you rarely will get one to settle down unless you are a bigger gameplayer than she is. It just doesn't work.
Forget about her and find someone who wants to spend time with you, not leave you hanging just when it gets interesting.
2007-11-23 20:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by roatanbruce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says that to all of the boys. You're not anything special to her. She's busy texting other boys. At least she does text you back. Take a chill pill and stop being so edgy.
2007-11-23 20:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people cant text all the time theres times they cant like when they are working or spending time with family. Just call her and tell her how you feel and see what shes go to say. Dont judge her wrong.
2007-11-23 20:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she probably think you are a great guy and friend but does not see you as bf material... meaning she wants to text you but friends do not text for hours or reply right away......
2007-11-23 20:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL U...i hate when ppl do tht but idk...cause sum boi use to do tht to me but he liked me but he never told me y he never responded...ur best bet is to ask her y she do tht or tha nxt time she tell u to txt her tell her u wud if she would respond then c wat she say and see if tht day when u txt her she responds and if she dont then the nxt time she tells u to txt her b like no cause she always ignoring u then ask her y she b ignoring u...because 4 all u know it cud b a problem with her phone
2007-11-23 20:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by breeReal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't actually want to have a full conversation over texting. Sometimes people would be like "call me later!" but they just want to be friendly, not have extensive conversation.
hope i helped!!
2007-11-23 20:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by becoolwithschool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did text you back..........
why do you set out to destroy what you have by wanting to put a time limit on her response...
give things time to come together here man...
slow is cool when it come to girls......
and also don't reply too fast when she response to your text........
2007-11-23 21:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE_JOHN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out!
2007-11-23 20:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋