What should i do??

Question

Okay i need some advice......well i think i'm kinda crushing on this guy that is a year younger then i am...which is not a problem. Here is the problem.....he just broke up with his girlfriend and is taking it pretty hard. We have talked more in the last 3 days then in the whole school year...but all we ever talk about is his break-up which is okay. i just want to try to help him but how do i do that?? and i kinda don't want him to find out i like him.

Answer 1

i thk he probably likes u 2 if hes confiding all this in u

Answer 2

If your intentions are like you say they are , that makes you a very good friend indeed.And that is just what your friend needs just now.Assure him that you are there for him, that he can cry on your shoulders or talk about his hurt feelings,that you will do everything in your power to help him in this his most difficult period because you understand the nature of the pain he is going through.Do not overdo it though since you guys have not really being that close or talked much before the breakup. One day he is going to ask you why you have been so good to him and you must be ready with an answer--- that will be the opportunity for you to reveal your feelings( if at that point, you still have the crush on him);remember if you let anything occur before then, it would most likely be on the rebound.Until that happens, try to keep your emotions in check or he is going to feel like you are a fraud or a fake and never was a friend.

Answer 3

Just be a good friend to him. Be there when he needs some one to talk to. It will take time but he will get over her and move on.

Answer 4

Just listening to him is helping. And from the sounds of it, it looks like your friends with him anyways, so just wait it out. Once he's over his past relationship and he sees someone better, perhaps someone who listened to him and helped, he'll notice it. *wink wink*

Answer 5

give hints that you like him and flirt more