Hi if anyone of ya'll read the question i posted few mins ago ya'll must know about my problem.I REALLY need to talk to someone,someone who's spiritual and christian but just someone because i need someone.Is there anyone i can share my problem with?
2007-11-23 12:07:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My id is mysterios_13@yahoo.com
2007-11-23 12:13:46 · update #1
sooo many questions in here young one i missed youre earlier and i not sure how to e-mail someone in yahoo dont u have to be invited first?? i sure u have more computer skills than i ,, maybe i can be of help .. i will try mjbrightergem33@yahoo.com.. this young girl is hurting and she be much too young for all this to be placed on her shoulders... . LORD GOD help this young lady toget the help the little brother needs and that she too is in need of ,,
2007-11-23 12:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this last week as well.
Look, you feel trapped, understood. But I have to ask you what are you choosing to be responsible for - the well being of others or your your own. You kind of come off as a martyr.
If you choose to provide care for your brother, then you accept that role and need to find fulfillment in it. You are conflicted with guilt which is why you keep asking about this. If you feel that your life is worse for the choices you have made than you need to examine your choices.
You mentioned you would be 17 soon - start planning for college, do things that help you fulfill your life. If it is taking care of your brother than you should already be content. You do not feel that the adults around you provide adequate care, and thus you take on this role - not out of a true desire to care for him, but because you have different standards of care from those around you, and when people recognize your contribution and praise you, you feel guilt and shame because it is not what you truly want for yourself - otherwise your sister going to a wedding would not bring you feelings of jealousy. Two things are true - you did not give birth to your brother, and you are 16/17. Even though you have experience in dealing with him, your sense of turmoil leads me to believe you are not truly equipped to deal with this especially when you are so young.
It is OK to want things for yourself - and given the little you have shared I imagine you will ultimately be the one who has to give it to yourself. If you don't start to be honest with your self and your parents about how overwhelmed you feel, you cannot make affective changes. This has nothing to do with religion, it has to do with you and what you truly desire which is nothing to feel guilty or helpless about.
2007-11-23 20:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what I can offer you spiritually, but, I am willing to offer some words of encouragement.
GOD bless
2007-11-23 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Exodus 20:1-17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlbwGegmB2fQe86zugTPE4Xd7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071123161825AAGvMEQ
It took me a while to find your other question. I searched through about 10 pages since you have everything set to private.
I can try to help you if you would like to email me.
2007-11-23 20:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Old Hickory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to you, but I can't find the question. Your questions and answers seem to be private.
2007-11-23 20:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Truth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course u can totally count on me!!! So whats goin on?
2007-11-23 23:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by waz crackin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt read u're earlier post, but maybe i can help. whatcha need- im a christian.
2007-11-23 20:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Believer_of _God 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go Emo
2007-11-23 20:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Mastershake 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
didnt read it sorry just got on
2007-11-23 20:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried calling JESUS?
2007-11-23 20:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋