the guy i like is known for asking girls out to get sex/head, and its gross! but recently he has been talking to me more and more, and i think he likes me. His friends have hinted to me that he likes me/might ask me out. he is really nice and funny, and everything but how can i tell if he likes me for me, or he just wants to go out with me..because he thinks im easy?
im really confused here, so any help would be nice
thx:]
2007-11-23 10:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've hung out with him a few times before and it hasnt been a problem
but the last girl he 'used' it was a bet and everyone knew except the girl, and i just dont ever want to be in that situatuon
2007-11-23 10:17:41 · update #1
well if you don't give him anything and make him wait it out with you( make him wait...) you will learn pretty quick what his game is. A player won't wait around for a girl who doesn't put out and if that's all he wants he will just use you and go onto the next. But he might actually really be interested in you, even the man-ho has a heart.
Nobody wants to be used and it sounds like he goes threw girls. It doesn't get any easier when you get older, it seems some men think because you are now an adult the second date you have sex... err no....
2007-11-23 10:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Twigglet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to raise your self esteem if you are even thinking about this - I will give you a site for that. Even if he likes you for you, it wouldn't last and he would be cheating on you with someone else. You are better off to make a lot of friends until you find someone not as likely to cheat on you instead of being a mark on his wall somewhere!!
2007-11-23 10:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you wait and see if he asks you out.. if he does, you can say yes.. just don't have sex with him. If he waits for you, then you know he likes you.. not just the possibility of getting you into bed.
2007-11-23 10:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay clear of players, your going to end up getting hurt. But you can always go out with him and see how it goes. If he makes a move, dump him, simple as that.
2007-11-23 10:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See him in a group situation first and later, if he proves be how you hope he is, go out alone with him.
2007-11-23 10:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by lynnemarton13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just want you for sex, you think he likes you thats what he want you to think to get what he wants
2007-11-23 10:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by packman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could go out with him and not have sex.
i think he is out to use you.
personally i would find someone else.
2007-11-23 10:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart and don't do anything dumb. if you stick to your morals then you'll get your answer.
2007-11-23 10:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by sexychick2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋