I finally got a date with the guy of my dreams, but he thnks its just a casual outing. It's only gonna be me and him. I'm plannin to treat him to starbucks and when we sit and chat i need to know how to flirt and what to say to him....please help...
2007-11-23 10:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a guy by the way
2007-11-23 10:19:42 · update #1
Just be fun. Fun is attractive. Ask him questions about himself. Both men and women love to tell someone else about themselves. The more he talks, the more fun he will have. The more you talk, the less fun he will have. Sorry, its just human nature, not me.....I'm just being honest.
2007-11-23 10:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not aware that it's a date then it's not officially a date, but if you wanna build him up into it, simply be yourself at your most fun state. In his mind it's a casual outing so make sure you don't put too many expectations into the outcome of things. Learn more about him by asking questions tell him something about yourself if you get the chance. Ask him questions about things like what he's studying in school or what he usually would do at this time of day. You can touch his arm, or his hand and when he talks make sure to have that eye contact. Definitely be positive, confident, and just enjoy yourself. Don't forget to smile:)
2007-11-23 10:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he think its just an outing and you think its a date? Why don't you dress in something sexy, but no too obvious (like your boobs popping out). Smile a lot, don't talk to much and laugh at his jokes. This is gentle flirting while being sexy but no too obvious.
2007-11-23 10:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt plan ur conversations
youll mess up lol and it will make u nervous
just go with the flow and be yourself
2007-11-23 10:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cliche but be your self and make him laugh, touch his hand and arm to that may send your message about wanting more
2007-11-23 10:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by packman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"So, do you like football?" "What is your favorite team?" "If you had a million dollars, what sports car would you buy?"
"Do you think Im pretty?"
2007-11-23 10:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by mikeydonatelli 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is the guy of your dreams and after starbucks
you wish to make wild, passionate love to him.
2007-11-23 10:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
r U a guy?
ask him wat he likes to do
laugh at his humor or be funny (but dont try too hard)
touch his hand or arm
2007-11-23 10:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Holly H <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, just act like you're having a good time even if you're not... duh
2007-11-23 10:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by RED MIST! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋