Ive ended things between me and him before but I called him the same night2see if he would take me back&he did. We've like each other for3or4years, but he had to go to another state for a couple of months, I said I would wait for him&I told him I loved him, while he was gone we kept in touch but at the same time I was seeing other people&that wasnt part of the deal. &becuase I havent seen him in so long I wasnt shure if I still had feelings for him, I've lied to him so many times and have hurted him, it got to the point where I wasnt shure if I HAD feeling fo him& but I had to end things a month before he came back to state all because I know he diserves so much better...I have this love for him and I mostly most of all just want him to be happy soo bad, so i ended things& I wasnt sure if it was even the right thing to do, Im stressing over this now that its over, and a think of him everyday...
-confused
2007-11-23 09:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Alexandria C. (star-crossed) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From your confusion and inability to stay committed to him, i think you did the right thing by ending things and I think you should do him a favor and stay away from him. How would you feel if someone kept bouncing you around emotionally like you did to him?
2007-11-23 09:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, he will be better off. If your confused about your feelings, don't do that to him. In a way you also kind of cheated on him. I think your still thinking about him because you feel guilty.
2007-11-23 17:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by OverTheRainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, seems like u need to let go, if u have been seeing other ppl and wasnt honest, u did the right thing
2007-11-23 17:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you tell him y u ended things? i think thats the most important thing right now he's probably thinking its something he did when it was you...come clean if you really love him maybe he can forgive you...but try...that the best thing to do...give urself to come clean..stop lying...
2007-11-23 17:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by lorennys2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what you want and how you feel before you do anything and nobody can do that for you.
2007-11-23 17:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by chrsardavaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jut ask him, if he wants to stay with you or dosn't becuase you want wats right for him, and he will tell you if he loves you.
2007-11-23 17:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY THE WAY U DON'T CHEAT WHILE U ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP PERIOD. LEAVE THIS POOR GUY ALONE U WERE RIGHT HE DSERVES MUCH BETTER
2007-11-23 17:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 100 per cent right, he does deserve someone
better than you. let him find her and you stay away from him.
2007-11-23 17:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋