ok so, me and my friend,katrina,werent very close when she lived in cali with me. then she moved to michigan with her parents and we talked online and were really good friends. i have also added some of her michigan friends on myspace, and became good"online"friends with them. recently we had an arguement over something and to settle it she gave me her exs aim so i could ask him. well i asked him..and we started talking, a lot. he added me on myspace and asked me to comment some of his pics and that hed return the favor.i posted generic ones like "oh cute" or "nice pic" but his were like "your so pretty" "man i wanna move to california" and as we were talking over an im he started getting really flirty. then katrina told me that she still had feelings for him. i deleted all the pic. comments so she wouldnt see them but what should i do, im not interested in him and i dont think she should be either. help?
best advice gets 10 pts.
thanks in advance.
2007-11-23 09:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lynda baby:
what does that have to do with anything?
2007-11-23 09:29:00 · update #1
Hello hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving, I feel you made the right decision cut all ties to this guy.If he knows you two are good friends he should have never doing any of those things. It does not matter that they no longer see each it is the respect he should have for the two of you.And with her still having feelings for him it would cause a conflict between you and her.And he is not worth that I would not tell her because it is not gonna do anything but hurt her and nothing really bad transpired between the two of you. He probably saids and does the same thing with any girl he meets, I can tell you have a lot of respect for her and yourself by getting rid of all of that stuff. You are a good and loyal friend and she is very lucky to have you , the next time he contact you tell him where to step off that the two of you are friends and friends don't do underhanded things to a friend.
2007-11-23 09:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether she should be interested in him or not is really not your place to decide. If you are not interested in him, leave him alone and let yor friend sort her feelings out herself. Be supportive of her. This guy could also be flirting with you to get you guys fighting or stir up jealousy. In fact, I am sure he is.
Getting flattering comments is, well, flattering, but that guy isn't the one that should be giving it to you. Cherish your friend, and keep a moral social circle.
Friends can sometimes be irrational and immature, but that doesn''t mean you have to also. I think it was pretty dumb of her to give her ex's IM to you, but don't punish her for that...show her ou are mature and a real pal. She'll appreciate later.
2007-11-23 09:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by miamistar007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her! Guys have really sensitive egos so if he gets mad that you rejected him then he might twist the story and tell Katrina that you came on to him. What ever you do make sure that you are honest with Katrina. no guy is ever worth ruining a friendship for especially a guy who is miles away.
2007-11-23 09:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Crispo Cremeos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you for confident, and he dosn't opt for to loose you, yet may be as a pal.... noting better than that. Your love did not artwork for some motives, study those motives and also you've were given the answer. percentage your thoughts along with your proper pal, enable her take the decision. as far as he liking you, it may not in any respect ensue .... yet you nonetheless have him as a pal, you should experience free with that in the different case basically say no to his calls. come out of the obsession expensive, it takes position to really everyone... purely element is it takes time.... go and fall in love back ..... all afresh ...the international is completed of opportunities.
2016-10-24 23:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yout friend katrina how you feel about her actions. If she is still acting like that, forget her and she come back to you. Give it a Try.
2007-11-23 09:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by lyndababy_4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you. you should not be interested in him and tell
your friend about her ex and explain to her your reasons as
to why neither of you should be involved with him.
2007-11-23 09:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋