2007-11-23 07:29:45 · 17 answers · asked by Linz VT•AM 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Excellent point, Zebra. Obviously, there's a gap for me. But you're right, there doesn't have to be one. I am happy to see most of you seem very comfortable with who you are.
2007-11-23 08:11:00 · update #1
It's only a prayer's-breadth.
2007-11-24 06:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A couple years ago just before my now ex-wife and I split up I'd have said there was no gap. I was happy and content. I'm a good guy blah blah blah. In the process of healing my heart I learned a lot about myself and I have grown a lot. One of the things I learned in that I'll never be who I want to be. That's OK with me. It is the effort of getting there that makes me a better man. I'm happier these days than I ever have been in my life. I think a lot of that is due to knowing that I will always keep growing.
2007-11-23 18:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
about 150 lbs.!
But aside from the physical, I would say who I want to be would include being loved by enough people who live close enough to visit frequently. Tomorrow I expect FIVE visitors, which is more than I have had total so far, let alone at one time. And four of them I've never seen before! They are an Internet friend, her husband and two children. The fifth, my best friend, is also an Internet friend of hers who also has not met her in the flesh yet.
Should be an interesting day!
But I've not lived here very long, and don't know many people. None of the ones I have met at the Ethical Society have visited my apartment yet. And I'm proud of it and want to make my friends comfortable here.
2007-11-23 15:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very small. I am very happy with the person I've become and what I've been able to achieve thus far. I still have more goals and dreams to go, but I see that as part of the given path now and not something I have to search for.
2007-11-23 16:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by genaddt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That really depends. In most ways, I'm already there. On the whole, I'm a good man and I know it.
But in some ways, I feel like there's a chasm between where I am and where I want or need to be.
2007-11-23 16:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus Chrysler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of happy with myself for the moment.
So I'd say it's a small gap.
2007-11-23 15:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
3 years :)
2007-11-23 15:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Laff -Hugs 4all- 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am happy with myself. Yeah, no complaints. Must there be a gap?
2007-11-23 15:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems too large to bridge at times, but I don't think giving up is really an option, right?
2007-11-23 21:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Grunty O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately it's pretty big...it's almost all health issues.
there are a few other things that i'm still working on...i tend to stay angry longer than i would like. it's a scorpio thing...lol
there is still so much more to learn and do.
bright blessings to you.
2007-11-23 22:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me gap is absolutely zero!!!
2007-11-23 16:09:39 · answer #11 · answered by Sandeep Sagar G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋