I dont think my friends like me because im fat, they never ask me to go out with them they only talk to me at school. Im shy and self conscious. I have lost 3 stones for my health and i still need to loose more weight... i weigh 161 pounds really fat i know =[. So perhaps if i stop eating ill get friends?
2007-11-23 06:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
no you won't, you will die , so instead of that try this absolutely guaranteed diet trick...you can eat what you are eating now BUT you have to count to 26 slowly between each adn every bite, this way yu eat slower, the message that you have eaten takes 20 minutes to reach the brain and back to the stomach so that you feel full so by eating slower you wont go bak for seconds therefore in 2 weeks you can lose up to 12 pounds now add 20-30 minute walk everyday you can lose more and inches.:) best wishes:)
2007-11-23 07:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trust me I have tried this, I was once 169 at 5'3 and now I'm steadily losing weight, but there was a time when I did not eat, I just got really antisocial and could not talk to anyone/avoided all contact with others. Sure if you don't feel good about yourself try to lose some weight, but if they dont talk to you because they think you're fat, they're really not your friends. I get quite paranoid too at times, people are harsh and society normality levels seem to be getting tougher and tougher to fit into. Be more outgoing, accept yourself as you are, stop thinking about your weight as something that gets others away from you and start thinking about the fact that what they should be looking at is your personality and who you really are, and plus if you get better friends like that they can be great mental support when you're losing weight!
2007-11-23 09:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by parisianbynight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you won't get friends if you stop eating. If you feel more confident with yourself, though, you may have an easier time making friends, but that doesn't mean you are any different of a person.
It probably isn't because of how you look, you are probably just a little less open with them and sometimes it is hard to get right into a group.
Keep doing it for your health but remember that changing yourself isn't the best remedy for making friends. just be open, let them in, talk to them, maybe invite someone to go do something with you after school and soon they'll know that you are open to going out too.
2007-11-23 07:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! they arent your friends if they don't like you for who you are. You should loose some pounds & ditch those losers! show um what uu got ;)
Drink lots of water
Fruits, Veggies & Meats
Snacks, handfull of nuts or a ceral special K bar.
Porridge is good on a morning. Or Muselia.
Exercise 3 days a week, even if its just a brisc walk round your local park for half an hour. every little bit helps :)
But don't ever stop eating! Not for those loserrs u call ur "friends"
Goood luck with everything x
2007-11-23 07:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends don't like you? How are they friends, then?
If you stop eating you will end up in hospital-making friends with the nurses and psychiatrists.
REAL friends love you , no matter what. Hairy, fat, dumb, old, young, with pimples and boils.
You will love YOUR friends fat or skinny, tall or short. Right?
If you have to be a certain wieight or hair color or iq for people to like you, you will always be looking for approval with the wrong kind of people.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 07:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,If You stop eating you will get friends,DEADONES.!First thing I would say is whether you loose weigh or not,how do you feel about yourself? Second-If your friends can't see what U see,about you?U DONT NEED THEM.Third-go out and meet people like at the park,coffee shop,mall,church and its functions.I like my woman thick to tell the truth.So hang in there,remember life is what YOU make it.
2007-11-23 07:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Marrvin Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stop eating, people will start talking about you behind your back, you'll be stared at, etc.
If you feel that way, then just TALK to your friends; or just invite them to go do something with you
or if your friends feel that way about you, then get better and new friends
2007-11-23 07:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by sk8tbrdswdtw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEA abillion friend.
i hope you know im joking. i know ALOT of big people that are popular and have alot of friends. if you show them your crazy side they wont care what you look like..thats the same thing with people that arnt that pretty or hott..people dont have to be super pretty or skinny or anything like that..
if you think about it.. most of the time people just care if you like to have fun and be crazy. thats how it is at my school.
2007-11-23 07:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean if you get thin you'll get friends? Well it could be easier to get friends. I have friends and I'm fat although I'm healthy and working on it very dedicatedly.
2007-11-23 07:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by JoeJohn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to screw up your metabolism if you stop eating.
It's NOT healthy.
Lose it the healthy way.
Eat healthy and exercise 30 minutes a day.
2007-11-23 07:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋