my ex is a big part of my life to big and he like to no every thing im doing he doesnt want me going out with other guys caues he want me to wait for him he has a girl friend and he still wants me to wait till they break up then he wants to go back out with me but when we were going out he was controling like i never could talk to other guys and he went on my msn and deleted it caues he didnt want me talking to the guys on there he pushed me so far that i went to homeschool so that he wouldnt think i was cheating on him but what should i do should i wait for him or not?
2007-11-23 05:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by Bananan G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not that bad were hes going to kill some one gosh
2007-11-23 06:30:41 · update #1
I don't think you should wait for him.
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-23 07:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He is BIG TROUBLE!! You need to stop all contact with him NOW! He DOES sound very controlling and things aren't going to change. And NOW he has a new GF??? Don't wait for him, in fact RUN - RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!
Change all your passwords, change your phone number if you have to!!! This is psychopathic behavior - he sounds like he could end up stalking you, and possibly worse. Maybe I watch too much TV, but it sounds possibly dangerous. You need to inform your family and friends about him and what he has been doing. You will need their support - both to keep you from wanting to go back with him (based on your comments) AND you will need their protection should he cross the line from annoying ex-boyfriend to sociopath stalker/killer.
This is not a joke.
2007-11-23 05:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this, think you know what you have to do here. I wouldn't even be talking to a guy like this. Of coarse your explanation IS one sided and we of coarse don't know ALL the facts but in a nutshell it would seem like you have a guy that just wants you to be strung along and you to at least a certain extent are going along for the ride even falling for it in fact.
2007-11-23 06:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by silencetheevil8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! He sounds like a big time jerk. If he was that awful while you were together, why would you want to date him again? And if you aren't together AND he has another girlfriend, he has no say in what you do. Tell him your life is none of his business and cut him off.
2007-11-23 05:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by nene111782 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave his sorry *** he waaay to controlling on you hes only telling you to wait for him so he can have you as a backup girl incase he doesnt want the other one. dont let himplay you
you dont wanna be rebound girl do you?
2007-11-23 05:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont wait he just wants to have you in a bubble while he gets to live his life girl u dont need that
2007-11-23 05:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, and find some self esteem, and not let him control you, you have let this go to far.
2007-11-23 05:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god controlling problems do not go back out with him change everything u can and he can never find them out and do not let him know the stuff so change and just ingnore him change everything so do not go back out with hiim ok DO NOT GO BACK OUT WITH HIM OK
2007-11-23 06:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all contact. Seems to me that you are someone who will let someone like this control you.... in that case... get out NOW!!!!
2007-11-23 05:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea5499 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him. Don't have anything to do with him at all.
2007-11-23 09:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Wendi lu who 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋