If you were a woman and in love with a younger man........?

Question

could you all think carefully before saying anything please, i was a young girl once and never thought that one day i would fall in love with a young man, young enough to be my daughter's age, sorry! no i am not,harming any one , no i am not, except only the both of us , i dared myself to tell you and to hear your opinion, please don't be harsh on me, no not expecting marriage, so don't tell me he will go to someone else when i grow older.What more can i tell you except that we both love each others, you may say he finds a mother in me, well i don't mind. Just give me your opinion please and thank you.

Yes we are in love, yes we are adults, don't worry he is even over 25

Answer 1

It isn't uncommon for a woman of middle years (35-55) to fall for a man of 19-25 or even younger. I don't know why it happens, but it does. I see NOTHING wrong with it in principle, and if you are SURE he feels the same way. In practice, men that age often do not know what signals they are sending out. Many older women have believed a younger man's flirting to be sincere interest, and it turns out not to be. The younger guys often have no idea that they have done anything hurtful.
So if you are sure that he is as interested in you as you are in him, go for it and I wish you much joy!!

Answer 2

Look this is not such a big case to worry about, as long as you're both adults and treat each other with respect then by all means be happy and contented with what you have. In this day and age everybody is entitled to find someone they love and respect. Don't think of what other people think they are not the ones who are living with you. You and your boyfriend owe it to yourselves to live the life you want and that includes being happy and just live for the day. Maybe it will last (no marriage needed as you say) and hopefully it will then you and your partner deserve each other.Age doesn't matter now it's how you treat each other and love each other to the fullest of your relationship. Furthermore as long as no violence occurs then don't let anybody else say otherwise. Also if your family thinks and sees that you're happy then nothing should really stop you but you yourself. Which I hope you won't .It's nice to be open about this things cos we are not living in the 17th century anymore. GOOD LUCK !!!!!

Answer 3

As long as he is not under 18. You wont be able to mold him though, so dont try. He may cheat on you, because he will have more confidence seeing that he pulled a woman his moms age. You are in the love and blind stage, talk to us when you get past that.

Answer 4

the details are a bit confusing. There is nothing wrong with being in love with a younger man, but I think there are exceptions of course. My bf is 12yrs younger than me, but he's not my son's age and I would never date anyone my son's age. And I wouldn't want a woman my age dating my son.

Answer 5

I wouldn't care what anyone else thought as long as you and he are happy. I think all women should go for the younger one's. Trade in the old hubby's. Women get more let's say active in the bedroom as they get older whereas the men slow down. Fact of life boys. One shot joes. lol

Answer 6

personally, for me, age does not matter... what is important is how you complement each other...

but it is said that women is a year older then men when it comes to maturity...considering that you have a really great deal of age gap, it's up to you on how you handle your differences....

Answer 7

I told you. Just flow with the river and take notes.

Answer 8

If you are both happy. Enjoy. People are too quick to be judgemental when it is none of their business.

Answer 9

If you are both in love nothing else matters.

Answer 10

rather odd ur too old he will need more and tighter too will u give it?