You will feel weird if your new partner ask you for a medical test ( of course you will do it also ) before having unprotected sex
2007-11-23 04:19:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!
2007-11-23 04:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by rsprettygirl25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont do it until you have that serious discussion. An STD is not worth the pleasure of sex w/o a condom. It goes without saying that you want to assume the best of this person but you REALLY cannot trust nobody. As unromantic as it is you have to be the bigger person and ask him to be honest with you about any STD's and ask if he's ever been tested.
10 days into a relationship is less than two weeks. He should totally understand and be cool about it. Although guys do think with their penis and not their brain all the time. :)
Any "good guy" would respect this concern of yours and would not be insulted.
You'll feel so much better about the situation if/when you handle it.
Hope this helps.
2007-11-23 12:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, is that the time frame now to ask for it? Tell him to put one on, unless he is willing to show you proof that he have been tested for HIV. Yes, it will feel weird but it best to be safe than sorry. Beside that, you only going out with him for 10 days...listen lady...did it ever occur to you that he might only be out for sex? If he about you, the sex issue would come much later on in the relationship....stop and thinking about it.
2007-11-23 12:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young people hook up much too quickly - just flirt and spend time together while you get to know different guys - it you find someone you click with spend the time to get to know them well - sex is for committed married couples - it might sound old fashioned but if you are aiming for the long term you need to commit to your partner and he to you - marraige is the way to go.
2007-11-23 12:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 10 days! He's still a stranger! You have no idea where his thing has been. Why would you even consider going unprotected?
2007-11-23 12:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex without protection. If he is willing to get tested and so are you, then that's a choice you have to make. Don't let a guy make you do something you are not comfortable with!
2007-11-23 12:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lenka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big NO! And this is a clue to his maturity and whether he really cares about your health and safety. There are too many STD's out there and some of them such as HPV can't be detected in the male easily.
2007-11-23 12:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom or get him tested!! No point in getting something or getting a surprise in a few months!!!
2007-11-23 12:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by barrio_boy_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Use a condom. Or get him tested before you do it without one.
2007-11-23 12:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Heartfelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike if that's all he's wants from you. There's more to dating than sex.
2007-11-23 12:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by insane one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say no. just because you've been together 10 days doesn't mean you know him. also what if you end up pregnant. it's alot more than just sex and std's, really think about it.
2007-11-23 12:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋