I told my fiance I wanted to cancel the wedding. I feel like we aren't compatable anymore. He said fine and I packed up my stuff and left. I'm now back at my old house which I never sold. He brought by my 22 month old's toddler bed and my 3.5 month old's crib and the rest of the furniture an hour ago. I gave him back the ring and we called everyone we needed to call. I don't ever want to see him again, but he thinks that since we're not getting married we can still date. HELP!
2007-11-23 03:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not because of the kids. It's his attutiude. He's changed.
2007-11-23 04:18:47 · update #1
damn what did you do that is soo bad? just tell him that you are done with him and that ya'll can not see each other at all. are the kids is as well or just yours? if they are his to then there is no way that you could just throw him out of your life. but if they are not you just need to tell him that, that way he doesn't get hurt again. you know what i mean?
2007-11-23 04:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by the bride to be 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u dont feel like ur compatable anymore, are u sure its not due to haven 2kids under the age of 2yrs old, a womans body dont go back normal untill 2yrs later. When people have kids, it does change things alright, but If ur not finding time to spend together then of course ur going feel like ur not compatable anymore. Why dont u at least stay friends and let him know u want br friends but want do a trail break, and maybe every now and again meet up for night out, if it dont work it dont work but at least u know for sure and u dont change ur mind down the line and think what the hell have i done. but If it dont work then let him know u be friends and that is it and nothing more, time to move.
What ever u descide i wish u all the best of luck in this!
2007-11-23 04:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mum of1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it's over and maybe in the future you can be friends, but right now, you're moving on.
2007-11-23 03:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO. If he doesnt get it, dont even talk to him anymore.
2007-11-23 04:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want to see him then dont its not up to him its up to you
2007-11-23 03:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sam T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋