Is it mean to get someone back by doing something really evil?

Question

If someone has been a B*A*S*T*A*R*D to you? Is it okay to do something back to them? If it makes you feel better?

Answer 1

Of course, totally. go for it! if they did something mean to you, you have the right to get back. i know it sounds totally un-diplomatic, but that's just the only honest answer. I can bet there's nobody who doesn't get back at people who do mean things. It's just that some people want to make themselves look better by saying you shouldn't get back. But seriously. You totally should.

Answer 2

I would feel guilty if I paid someone back for what they would of done to me. If you look into history we have people that paid someone back, all over the place. Look at what we did to the ones that bombed Pearl Harbor. Sometimes it can get out of hand, and innocent people get hurt on the process. Best thing to do is let it go. The person that did it to you either did not know they did, or they may not even know they are busted. The best thing if you really cared about the person enough to want to get them back, talking to them is best even though it may hurt to tell them, it may hurt them to know they hurt you. It is good to ask why. You may not like the answer so make sure you are ready before you ask.
More than likely if you are mad at them more than likely you cared about them. I am sorry that he hurt you. It would probably help you if you walked away and healed. It is likely that you do not want him to know he hurt you.
Being mad is usually how we handle someone breaking our trust which after being mad we usually break down and start knowing the hurt inside they caused.
Sorry this is so long, it is an answer that can go in any direction like the circumstances of the situation.

Answer 3

No, you won't feel better but you could get yourself in a world of trouble.

Trouble is easy to get into but hard to get out of.

Just let it go. Because what goes around really do comes around.

Whatever this person did to you, forgive them in your heart and then forget about them.

Forgiveness is not for them. It is for you. It helps you to let go of the anger.

And everyday that you feel like getting back at this person, ask God to give you strength to forget this person. He will.

And you'll still have your freedom and be a lot happier in the end,

Answer 4

If they are a bully or something and do something to you you shouldnt try to get them back that would make you the bully and no one wants that if someone says something meen to you just say thank you or you to but not mean like and if they keep on being mean to you just say I dont have time to talk to someone as inmature as you

Answer 5

If you mean making soup out of their parents and then tricking them into eating it, then that might be construed as evil. But if it makes you feel better..

Answer 6

its called revenge sweetie, your better than that. now sweet revenge is good when you go on with your own life. he'll meet some girl someday who will treat him even worse than he treated you. you can smile go about your life as if he were a fly on the wall.

Answer 7

well, i bet you have a good reson to get them back. Maybe do something less devilish. just a minor prank

Answer 8

its depens what you did i mean lyk if it was realy mean then maybe not but igf i whant to bad then who no's but u shud try talkin 2 the person not doin sumat mean

Answer 9

no its stupid. you'll feel better you didnt contribute or sink to that person's low by doing something shady to them back.

Answer 10

No because to wrongs do not make a right.