He left me for another girl but still tells me he loves me. I dream about him but i wanna move on with my life! I wouldn't mind havin him back n my life but i cant trust him! Can someone help?
2007-11-23 03:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by Thug Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the same thing as me. well, take it one step a time. try to move on.
-LuckyGirl831 (Denise N)
2007-11-23 03:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by DELETED 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no way he can tell you he loves you when he has another girlfriend. i have been through these so many times and it hurts a lot every single time. well, i know how you feel. i liked my ex back after 1 whole year holding an evil grudge against him. somehow, hate turned to a crush.. don't trouble yourself too much with thoughts of whoever that guy is.. he might just be playing with you. before you get back with him, make sure you know whether he really means it or not. i wouldn't really trust him if I were you. however, i would try to find a way to see if he's back for good or not. you need to be really careful. its a huge warning! if you fall for the same trap again, its really the end of your heart. if you really insist on getting over him, im sorry to tell you that you cant force yourself to do so. you cant change your feelings.. it takes a long time.. try to occupy yourself with something else. keep yourself busy..
good luck <3
2007-11-23 03:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, if he left u for another gurl.move on its ur life and u shouldnt have to sit back and wait on him to make his mind up bout what he wants to do.
so dont sit there and do nothing go out and have fun and let him see u having fun. after all he left u.
no u cant trust him and dont waste ur tyme thinking that u can
trust uur self and move on b/cuz no one needs to be sad, not over a dude that left u.
you only think and dream of him b/cuz he just left u and u still have feelings for him, but i bet u if u go out and have fun with other friends and enjoy life u will 4 get tis guy and u will be able to tell him that u have moved on and u dont need him.
hey its ur world.QUESTION: HOW HAPPY DO U WANT TO BE? U HOLDS THAT KEY AND U HOLDS THE JOY U NEEDS.
you will find that special somone and u will no it and u will be happy. hey, who nos he mite be the one, but 4 now u need to make ur self happy and enjoy life .
be careful at what u decide and make sure it is the rite move
take ur tyme and be happy LOVE =TRUST and if he left u how much do he loves u? think bout it. after all u can do bad by ur self
2007-11-23 03:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by I C you! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone leaves her/his partner which means somethings was wrong in relationship. May be you or him were wrong or you stoped doing something that you used to do before. He will continue to tell you that he loves you because what you had was special. And he misses that. Even when he is in love with someone, when he sees you, he misses that thing that you used to do. And he himself, has problem which I think it not easy for him. To let go of the past. And looking for to the future. He comes backs to you, he will also tell her previous partner that I love you. The best medicine is to continue with life and find someone who love you for who you are and not for what you have. It is not easy to find someone, and understand me, I don't say the are many fishes in the sea and will get one, NO. It is hard to catch a good fish in the sea. Wish you the best. And dream about someone does it mean that you love that person? Girl, life is beautiful thing, you live every second because that second wont come back. And Good Luck!
2007-11-23 03:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Thabo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer to that is, you can never get over someone that you love. Once that love is there it is always there. I know what you mean I had it done to me once. I learned though, that without trust there can not be love or a relationship. Once that trust is gone it is to hard to get it back. The best advice I can give, even though it's hard is to go with your heart. Take soem time to really think about it and let your heart decide. But once you love someone you will always love them even if you are no longer with them!
2007-11-23 03:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki89 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
learn to respect yourself...you really deserve alot better and something is off with your self-respect if you think its acceptable that he LITERALLY chose a person he barely knew over all you two had built. At some point he knew he would hurt you and set out to please his own selfish needs first. You have to ask yourself how much of this person was unforgettable and how much credit you have given him in your mind-idealizing only the good things and being COMPLETELY blind to his faults.We all do the same flips and tricks for love-but you need to trust the people who can see the situation clearer than you can right now.If you let him walk all over you-taking him back now is pretty much like saying..'do whatever you want,hurt me,lie to me and have fun with the other girls...I dont like myself enough to care'
2007-11-23 03:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you can't trust him there's no use in having him around. Keep the close ones around you and keep the closer far away. So just find a new guy that you can kinda flirt with and then you will be able to get over him.
2007-11-23 03:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Luvloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of time to get over that. Hang out with friends, join a book club. Do something that will not have you thinking about him. Its not easy to do, and he should understand that. If the break-up was bad, you shouldn't want to get back with him so the hurt could continue. go have fun, live worry-free, and do you. Don't worry about a man right now, it'll come when you're ready.
2007-11-23 03:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by ykalex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is no longer the one for you. Keep in mind, he left you. That means its time to get over him. Just don't think about him. Take up new hobbies like teaching at gananda, yoga, etc. Then after a while, you can start dating other guys.
2007-11-23 03:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant trust him, which is the main thing, then move on. Might not be easy but do it. Go out and have fun, you'll get over it. Be determined and dont talk to him.
2007-11-23 03:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there you need to close this chapter in your life & move on, he has done this once he will keep doing this to you because you are prepared to take him back...If you keep yourself busy & meet new people you will get over him, trust is most important in a relationship if you dont have trust you have nothing................remember this life gives you clues you just have to see them GOOD LUCK
2007-11-23 03:34:36 · answer #11 · answered by rettlee3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋