ok i am 14 ma sister 1s 13 k this 1 dude who was in my grade last year and got held back is in her grade this year. He actually pushed ma sister and my sister gotta cut on her absolutely gorgeous forhead (ha:) so the school handled it with a 1 day in school suspension right but i still believe that wasnt enough . The kid is taller than me and a fat @$$ how can i handle this lil ***** because it isnt right to push a girl especially one who is way way way smaller than him so i kinda wanted to go chuck norris on his ***** a$$
any ghetto kung foo sh1t you could help me wit cause i no a lil savate . . . but im not supposed to use it until ya no soo i have no llife thats why i am asking you people cuz i could just go and kick his a$$ the old fashioned way also he is older that i am
2007-11-23 00:25:13 · 4 answers · asked by John Doe 1 in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
I understand your frustration but you will not win a fight in the mental condition you are in now.
You can learn martial arts but it would be awhile before you could apply it correctly and not have it be used against you.
Coach your sister to be aware of this guy so she is never alone with him and that she has an plan in case he attacks her again. Even if the plan is to scream or talk very load to draw attention form others.
Be patient because it will not be long befor this guy is kicked out of school again or removed from school.
Do look into a martial arts or self defence program it will be something that will last you a lifetime.
2007-11-23 01:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by jeemmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are experiencing what many of us older people have had to already learn how to live and deal with-a person that does not treat others with respect and/or bullies them because they can or wants to. Try to remove your emotions from this first and look at it more objectively and not the fact that it was your sister and see if that does not make it a little easier for you. While I agree what he did is wrong and may require some reaction or punishment (which the school has already taken) you need to step back emotionally from it a little. You are fourteen and have your whole future ahead of you and if you can learn how to do this now you will be so much better off. Not only that but sometimes people who don't end up themselves becoming like those that they despise and hate so much.
While I am not saying you should not defend your sister if you can step back, let the school handle it which it sounds like they are doing, you can more easily maintain your objectivity, stay out of trouble, and in the future be there for your sister when she may need you more. I suspect that this person will run afoul of the school more and it is only a matter of time but you have to learn to balance this and stepping back will help you to do that I think.
2007-11-23 02:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by samuraiwarrior_98 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alright well you really want to beat him up? Well i'm also a 14 year old guy but i never did get in a fight with anyone yet. If you want to get his attention to you then you should try to protect you sister, and if he wants to fight you, do it somewhere else not in school you know, somewhere isolated place, REMEMBER "NEVER STRIKE FIRST" it's a karate quote i learn in karate. Well good luck!
2007-11-23 10:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Concussioner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14, and judging by how you're acting, you're probably too immature to really handle this effectively.With the attitude you're showing, you'd just make more trouble for your sister.
2007-11-23 09:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋