I'm nearly 19 and never had a gf before. It's not like im antisocial or horrendously ugly or anything bad like that... Is it possible to just be unlucky? Everytime a girl likes me something bad happens that stuffs everything up. It's almost at the point of being ridiculous! Sometimes i just wanna die cos i get so lonely.. ARGH
what would u do in my shoes? I dont want to be single anymore..
2007-11-22 23:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't believe that it has anything to do with fate.
Don't worry, I am sure that you will have a girlfriend soon. I think you need to try and think positive. If you have got it into your mind that you are unlucky, that is getting in the way of your confidence and self belief.
You are no more unlucky than anyone else. Be confident and hold your head up. You won't be lonely for long.
2007-11-22 23:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what it is that 'stuffs everything up'. What do you do which puts off the girls as soon as they start liking you? Do you pounce on them or something? Are you too needy? You sound like you are. Try relaxing a bit more and see what happens. Luck/fate only play a part in meeting someone. The rest is up to you and it's something you are doing that's getting in the way of True Love Forever.
2007-11-23 07:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about personal strength
confidence
purity
nobility
passion especially art, music, helping poor people etc...
dont worry yet but do get out in the world and get some experience with trying
conquer fear of women and social anxiety they can smell fear...
try public speaking or performing
2007-11-23 07:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still young to feel unlucky. just enjoy life and surely a girl of your liking will come along. don't be bored or look sad. no girl will be interested in a sa bored bloke. cheer up. girls will gravitate towards u if u r cheerful.
2007-11-23 07:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by frerevivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop trying so hard and stop looking it will come by your way when you least expect it. I would just get out there and have some fun and do a bit of flirting. Girls love a bit of flirtatious fun! She will come, you are still young-just be patient.
2007-11-23 07:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 21 and i've never had a boyfriend before, i'm in a similar situation where things just never have gone right....your not the only one just have faith and things will work out....i get confused as i'm not ugly or weird or anything either so i do understand
keep smilling
2007-11-23 07:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Emma B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND SOME SINGLE GROUPS WHEREVER THEY MIGHT BE LOCATED AND VISIT THEM AND MAKE FEMALE ACQUAINTANCES THEN INVITE ONE OF THE GALS TO LUNCH OR DINNER OR SOMETHING. IF YOU ENJOY CHURCH ACTIVITY , MAYBE THEY HAVE A SINGLE GROUP. WHEN YOU ATTEND A GROUP OF SINGLES DONT BE A WALL FLOWER GET IN THERE AND SOCIALIZE AND HAVE FUN.
2007-11-23 07:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that lonely, Adopt a pet!
2007-11-23 07:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by remoserjr107 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill...........the right one just hasn't come along yet..........and yes...most often does.
2007-11-23 07:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by rainbowmatrixs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a nice face might help?
2007-11-23 07:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by bigtomobeirne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋