wanting to be with my bipolar boyfriend why do i keep wanting to go back after we break up constently i just dont underdstand why he means so much we have only been together for 4 months and i just gout out of a long relationship b4 him i dont know why i waste my time but i feel like something is wrong with me for letting it happen cuz i know it wont work why do i waste my time
2007-11-22 23:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by Christa_420 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm.....oook DB i am not desperate come on i could pull some hot guys he just treate me like no other when he is happy he doesnt abuse me he is just sad a lot and gets sad about things and makes em bigger then they r
2007-11-22 23:23:39 · update #1
You are co-dependent. Consider getting professional help before you get into a relationship with anyone. When you do get in a relationship explain to them that you have this condition. With love and understanding you can have a wonderful live, with the wrong person your life will be miserable. Bipolar and Codependency are a real bad mix. You sound like a nice girl.
2007-11-22 23:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to make something work, anything, so you can have love in your life. You lack something within yourself or your life that you don't get from this relationship, but you keep coming back because you depserately want it and think it will happen. What that is, is something you need to figure out. Counceling will defintely help, or some agressive soul searching. Take a breather. Let the wounds from your previous relationship heal and use this alone time as an opportunity to get to know yourself and figure things out.
2007-11-22 23:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Midas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 12:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by lil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i understand what and where you are going through and sometimes its not easy to let go of the person you love. you said that he doesn't abuse you and he treat you like no other. so which mean by what how he was treating you love being with him because he make you more comfortable and secured and you don't want that to end. I have a bad relationship too. my last ex girlfriend dumped me for a 350 pound man and she didn't even told me what i was doing wrong so that was last year on October 14 the last time i talk to her and until later now i still feel like we are together. i dream about her every day and night. i just don't know how to let go, out of all of the girls i dated she was the one who actually touches my heart, I enjoy being around her and she made my life complete and happy until she left and now I'm just thinking if i could ever find somebody like her. until now i don't have a girlfriend because she is in my mind every moment so if you feel like that too and if you know where he is just go around and ask for a second chance or to be a close friends again. it will help if you can see him again and who knows may be this time it will work good for both of y'all so just do what you heart tell you to do and remember something sometime you have to spend a lot of time to get to where you want to go. so think about that too. you good my bless and wish me luck for any girl out there.
2007-11-22 23:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can look within yourself and decide WHY you keep going back to a relationship that obviously is not going to work. Perhaps you need some councelling to help you figure out why. Best of luck to you sweetie....
2007-11-22 23:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Racer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may be the kind that hangs on to what you have and try to change it to make it better.but tring to change some one is a desaster. you'll learn that people don't change. Untill you learn and relize that, you'll always go through this.
2007-11-22 23:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by alvineram 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with yo u except you under estimate yourself. so forget him and yo u deserve a much better guy which you will get.
2007-11-23 00:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by PHD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES WE UNDER ESTIMATE OURSELVES AND MEN THAT ARE ABUSIVE MAKE U FEEL AS IF THEY R ALL U GOT U ARE PRETTY AND DESERVE TO BE TRATED LIKE A LADY
2007-11-22 23:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there are meds for that. They really do work!!
2007-11-22 23:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cos you are desperate not to be alone?
2007-11-22 23:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋