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i'm trying to scream out how i feel but i feel blocked by other people to do so, why don't people understand me?

2007-11-22 22:40:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

biogeek lol that was not my intention just a spelling fault
"I create new words to express my inability to express myself"

2007-11-22 22:56:06 · update #1

lol biogeek you said hands down, i did it litherally for you^^

2007-11-23 02:06:28 · update #2

22 answers

Understanded? I can't imagine why!

2007-11-22 22:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0 0

I feel sometimes we are destined to be misunderstood. I didn't ever feel my parents understood me. Sometimes I have found someone who has understood part of me, but no-one is going to understand the whole of another person, because they are not mind-readers and what we show is only the tip of the iceberg. I think in the end the best thing is just not to expect to be understood completely.

Sometimes improving your communication skills helps (and I don't mean your shouting, whining, sulking or flouncing off skills!). If you can choose the right time to talk to someone quietly and gently, i.e. not when they are busy or tired or haven't got time to listen attentively, you can explain how you feel. It's better if you don't do it in a criticizing alienating way, as this can create another argument. Maybe you need to sit down and work out precisely what is needed to make you feel better, and then you could MAYBE explain that to the appropriate person if you think they care enough about you to listen.

I think everyone has secrets - things you wouldn't tell your parents but might tell a friend, things you might tell a parent but not a friend, things you could only tell a lover, or things you wouldn't dare tell a lover. You see how complicated it is?

Sometimes you just need to work out your own solutions....or not, as the case may be. I don't know how old you are, but if you are just coming into young adulthood, or having relationship difficulties, this feeling of being misunderstood can be overwhelming. If it can't be resolved, just shrug your shoulders and go and do something you enjoy or that will benefit you or someone else physically or mentally - it will make you feel better even if the problem still remains.

2007-11-22 23:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

"Blessed is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that geteth undedrstanding" (Bible Verse)

Understanding is oftentimes hare to find and we all are frequently misunderstood.

I have a hard time understanding why you are so misunderstood in this situation (or all situations). I would need more information. So maybe some of it might be to try to communicate more and to be very clear about what it is that you want.

Upon General MacArthur's being interviewed after his success in Wortld War II, he was asked what the secret to his success was. And he said, "Never give an order that CAN be understood. Always give orders that CANNOT be MISUNDERSTOOD.

So work on your vocabulary, your powers of self-expression, and consider putting more of your communications in writing. Sometimes people don't understand you fully until they see it on paper or in text.

2007-11-22 22:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by John S. 5 · 0 0

I will take you seriously even though your English will offend some perfectionists here. Better speaking leads to better understanding.

To be better understood, often you have to address your audience. Instead of always trying to present things as completely your side of the story, empathize with those whom are also communicating, then introduce your points. Try to gain a little headway on a new group instead of trying to convert an entire room in one rant. Finally, don't get upset if you don't get instant success - many people need awhile to see what other information is out there before they will accept another point of view.

Also, if your body language suggests aggression, you will meet with aggression from others. Try relaxing as you speak.

2007-11-22 22:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0 0

Most people won't be receptive to a message that's screamed at them with frustration and angst. If they're not open to what you have to say, then they won't try to understand you. Find a better way to communicate how you feel, in a way that others are open to receiving.

2007-11-22 22:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Midas 2 · 0 0

This is hands down the funniest question I have seen all night long. Absolutely awesome my friend. Best of luck with that whole "I create new words to express my inability to express myself" thing you have going on. Awesome question, truly. I'm going to print this and hang it on my refridgerator.

2007-11-22 22:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by abiogeek2 4 · 1 1

most people dont know enuff to understand a complex mentality? its their fault not yours.
try asking a question of some one with a little sense or a psychiatric degree? and next time ask them for a pencil the crayola was hard to read

2007-11-22 22:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by crazzijimsmith 7 · 0 0

because understanded isn't a word.
haha sorry,
that was sarcastic.

i honestly couldn't tell you,
i feel the same way sometimes
i feel as if i am screaming at the top of my lungs
and people just blow me off

maybe it's because you're expressing yourself the wrong way
or you're trying to connect with people who you have nothing in common with

dunno. sorry. it sucks, i know.

2007-11-22 22:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by lyssa 2 · 0 0

Hey, that is because, you run behind girls... Let them know your *value and come after you. You give away to much, never give your pride to any girl or woman. Its like when you try to show her how you feel about her, she will never respond you.

Better, you try to keep yourself fresh (even mentally). Wear up-to-date clothes(it means clean and ironed clothes, normally white and light colored clothes are preferred by matured woman). And do not pay attention to girls at all for few days. Especially, the girl you like. Try to be smart all the time and do not give her dime! I bet you with two weeks she will be after you.

Well, everyone has its own lookout but this is what I feel about girls being a girl myself.

2007-11-22 22:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by ash 1 · 1 1

To have someone understand you, you need to understand other people. You need to express yourself so they know where you are coming from. Open your mouth and tell them how you feel, and what you want. People are'nt mind readers.

2007-11-22 22:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0 0

dear blessed one,
blessed love,
to make others understand u , first understand yrself. meditate on yr self. love yrself, respect yrself, yr lord dwells within u as u.meditation brings self-awareness. and self awareness brings understanding yrself.and this adds confidence & courage to be with people and make them yr friend in very natural & spontaneous manner.
luv,
shree swami maa

2007-11-22 22:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by maaprabuddhananda 4 · 0 0

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