Can you? please state if you are a guy or girl...I am a virgin (waiting till marriage) but I feel like girls can tell that I am a virgin from the way I act...No one has said anything but it's just a feeling that I get...I feel like I can spot some girls who are virgins as well, but I don't know for sure...What are your opinions?
2007-11-22 16:48:45 · 21 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea its in your moves, your eyes, your body language.
people who are in tune can tell..the way you dress..your conversation....
its wired but its true..
I commend you for waiting really what's the rush~~~
2007-11-22 16:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anaiyah M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I cannot spot a virgin a mile away...and you're just being silly if you think other people can tell you're a virgin. If you're worried, and if people actually do pick up on it once they talk to you, it's because of that...how you talk. Not about day-to-day things, but if a buddy is talking about a girl and you don't reply in a typical guy way, they might suspect it. If a girl is flirting with you and you get really uncomfortable and nervous, they might suspect it. But I assure you, it's impossible to simply look at someone and tell if they're a virgin. Just relax and stop thinking about it.
2007-11-22 16:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm over 18, a male, and a virgin. It's not a big deal. Frankly, it's none of their business to begin with. Also, I think it's hard to tell, unless you know the person is really hardcore into religion, and even then it's tricky. Don't worry about it, man. In the long run, it really doesn't matter. I think it's get that you're waiting; and most other reasonable adults will feel the same way.
2007-11-22 16:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by The Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sometimes spot virgins. My cousin Mary-Ann felt that many women could spot virgins.
However, nothing really wrong with being virgin unless it gets to your brain and rots it. This can happen with some older women .. north of 30. They get cranky and strange and then nobody wants them. Yet once of the nicest women I have met at a retreat was 40 and virgin.
I hope you wait for a time which feels right and good to you. Don't do something stupid just to fit in.
Mine was a special time. I hope yours is.
2007-11-22 16:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not. If you think you can spot some girls who are virgins then are you just going on looks or what? Some people may really suprise you. But, you should just be confident and proud of your decision. If a girl really likes you she won't care wether you're a virgin or not.
2007-11-22 16:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by maybe you'll see ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m a guy and i tell u there is no rule for that, although by general obvservation u can be sure about some girls and guys as well that they are virgin or must have many partners. btw why r u so much bothered about it, dont u know the fact "... virginity is just lack of opportunity"
2007-11-22 16:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dis part of my life is Happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a girl and im also waiting till marriage....but no...i mean its not something i think about unless i start likeing him, then its more of a well he hangs with these people so maybe hes' not, but im the type of person to just flat out ask about it. SO no i can't. Good job on waiting though, more power to you!
2007-11-22 16:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can kind of tell. If you are a teenager I think it is a good idea to wait awhile, however, I don't think it is a good idea to wait until marriage. You gain a kind of emotional maturity from having an intimate adult relationship(which usually involves a healthy sex life). That is probably what people are sensing, your lack of emotional maturity.
2007-11-22 17:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude if you dressed like a klingon for halloween or talk bout star wars or star trek all the time and belong to the chess club chicks will know instantly youre a virgin. and wearing a pocket protectors a dead give away to.
2007-11-22 17:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you are a virgin just by looking at you. if you dont want ppl to know if your a virgin just act confident
2007-11-22 16:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't spot a virgin from two feet away, for ti doesn;t matter to me
2007-11-22 17:01:47 · answer #11 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋