Will he continue to contact me?

Question

I have been talking to a married man for a few months... NOT SEEING HIM... just talking over the phone and we have met up a few times and made out and stuff like that. I am 21 and he is 35. We have liked each other ever since I started working at the gym that he works out at... there has ALWAYS been an attraction between both of us. Now... I feel like I love him and I have feelings for him. YOU CAN NOT HELP WHO YOU LIKE OR HAVE FEELINGS FOR,... I DONT CARE IF THEY ARE MARRIED OR LIVE ON A DIFFERENT PLANET. So please dont start talking a bunch of crap on me b/c we BOTH like each other. Anyway.. his wife kinda found out and he said that we needed to LAY LOW for a little while and I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me and he said that he will still text me. And im sorry to say this but something will probly happen between us... we both agreed to it and like each other alot. I feel bad about it tho... Do you think he will continue to contact me? and no he has no kids

Answer 1

Honey, I can tell you have a VERY low self esteem and probably very insecure about yourself. About 'cannot help who you like' ummm..that's a bunch of bull...

Can't you get men that are NOT married and who's your age/ What? only liars and cheaters goes after you? You must not be that good.

Answer 2

You know darn well he's going to contact you. I don't want to come across as mean spirited...I'm just a little insulted. You say to us, don't give you any flack, but you are totally contradicting yourself here because meeting up and making out a few times is more than just talking on the phone. You are treading in some dangerous territory. Be honest with yourself first. You have abandoned reality on this situation. You could be facing some serious drama on your job and more. I hope this works out for you.

Answer 3

Liars and cheats tend to find each other, so my guess will be that he will contact you. And when he gets done using you, you might want to consider some professional help to figure out why you would settle for this lying cheating low life. Surely you must think better of yourself than that, but maybe not. Enjoy if you want, but keep this question because somewhere down the road, when your future husband cheats on you with a 21yr old girl, you might want to eat your words.