She is 15 and i am 17 truing 18 soon . i am asking yous because i don't trust me friends to give true answer because it could annoy me. i love her to bits and there not a hope in hell of me braking up with her over this but i still want to now. is this viewed as OK
2007-11-22 11:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its only a 3 year difference as long as your intentions are true and you dont pressure her into anything i dont see why i wont work just because of the age gap. it might seem like a big gap now but just think when ur 26 she'll be 23 not a big deal at all. =D
2007-11-22 11:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with the age difference... when you both are old enough and mature enough to deal with the issues of adulthood. If you both want to be together as a couple at your age is fine, yet if you are wanting to be together so that you can consumate your friendship with sex, then I would advise you to wait. A good relationship is built on love and trust and a whole lot of other stuff. You may find yourself in trouble with the law if the parents realize that you are having sex. If hearing the truth annoys you, that shows a sign of immaturity on your part. Possibly you should wait till you can deal with this situation when you are more grown up.
2007-11-22 19:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by lazydaysranch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it only 3 years. There some people who date other people 20 years older than them. If yall two are really in love then go for it. I guessing you are a Senior and she a freshman. People in high school do it all the time . Don't let people decide the way you should live. Just wanted to tell you. Good luck!
2007-11-22 19:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years won't be a big deal when she's 20 and you're turning 23, but she's only 15. She's a child still...I know it doesn't seem like it to you, because you are still a child too, but she is not age of consent, and you will be very shortly, so...There's a reason why we have laws the way we do, 15 year old girls are very naieve. Don't get her pregnant!
2007-11-22 19:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Space Chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, I wish me and my boyfriend were only three years apart!! Hes 12 years older than me. I think 15:18 is fine. When I was 15, I dated a guy who said he was 18, turned out he was really 22. lol. Its not such a big deal, only maybe with the law. As long as you don't have sex, its o.k.
2007-11-22 19:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Arikayn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is not too young. Just stand by her and support her while she continues her education. As the two of you mature, you can eventually be together all the time. I think it is great that you love this girl that much. Please don't let anyone or anything come between the two of you....
2007-11-22 19:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age really matters as long as she is there mentally, i would hold off on having sex untill she at least turns 16 so there will be no legal matters.
Good luck
2007-11-22 19:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! love shouldnt be on account over numbers, unless shes like 5 years younger than you. i mean, think about it! a lot of people have a huge difference when they date, and besides, when you guys get older, 25 years old and 22 years old won't seem like a huge difference. lol ;)
2007-11-22 19:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by mcr_fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 love each other the age difference is fine, just wait till she is legal to have sex.
2007-11-22 19:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by edrcormier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not in legal terms you could get arrested or have to pay a fine or may have to register as a sex offender if when you turn 18 you two get caught doing something...but in my opion it is ok if you realy love her
2007-11-22 19:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋