So i've been dating this guy for a few weeks..whenever we hang out sometimes and it's usually at his house. When we're in bed he says weird things, like 1 day we didnt have sex but he said something like "I wanna hear you scream, maybe i should rape you so I could hear that sound ahhh" or like "I hate your boots, but if we do it doggy style you should wear those" "your so small i could rip you apart" "we should have an orgy, i havent seen you in 2 weeks..there's so much sexual tension"
LOL I know that was a little weird but im just trying to figure this guy. He's into death metal, and that show dexter is his favorite. I mean he's a little weird, but like I wasnt expecting that to come out of his mouth. ANd im wondering if I should drop him? ANY comments ....lol
2007-11-22 10:00:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean he seems like a normal guy..hes 23 works as as bartender and i met a few of his friends the night i was with him at his bar and they all told me hes a really nice guy n stuff..but he has a completely diff sexual side, and its a bit of a turn off
2007-11-22 10:20:19 · update #1
and 1 other thing that annoys me..is that twice when we went out walking to get some food..he got food for himself n never offered me any..same thing at his house..i mean i dont really care..but its just a sweet thought
2007-11-22 10:37:15 · update #2
Your boyfriend is a pig who doesn't respect you (or women in general).
You are better than this; find someone who respects you.
2007-11-22 10:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by D S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds a bit scary to me.. but then again, I don't know the guy. So my advice to you is follow your gut and ask people you know who know him to find out if they get a weird vibe from him. I mean, there may be a connection between him watching Dexter, listening to death metal and saying those sorts of things, but then again there may not be any connection at all. Again, take a cue from those around you who love you as well as your gut instinct, and go off of that. Good luck to you.
2007-11-22 18:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by howlstothestars 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm . hes just like u thought wuld be but turned out to be a major creep...he isnt the one you wanted ...and is there sumthin on his mind .. sexually heis dangerous .. i mean luk at his thought ss.. like he can be real hard on bed .. get rid of him .. tht bartender he may be gud but the other side of him is real crazy and tooooo wierd... if he makes you feel unconfortable i would totally dump him....hes mentionin rape so calmly .. u never no wats on his mind.. what happened to yr 9 yr older bf ..
2007-11-23 00:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by kritika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if he takes things like rape lightly then you don't know what he is capable of. Then again if that kinda talk doesnt bother you then you need to judge if he could take it further and if not then don't worry about it. If you are gonna dump him I would take care as to how your gonna let him down.
2007-11-22 18:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Flammen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way it seems to me is he's just in it for whatever he can get out of it. I listen to metal and so does my husband and that is no way to ever think, it's just sick. Your best bet would be to drop him now. Because if he is that crazy over that little of stuff. Who's to say he won't force you if you refuse!
2007-11-24 09:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like like John Wayne Gacey
2007-11-22 18:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Why ask me? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ooommmggg i would never go over his house again...go to a park or a public place so like if he does try to rape you peole will see a like turn him iin or something.......if he makes you feel unconfortable i would totally dump him....one day he may think that you trust so much he might make a BIG move on you....
DUMP HIM
P.S. dont wear skirts around him....just LONG pants ;)
2007-11-22 18:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of creepy, especially since you have only been going out for a few weeks. I'd be careful if I were you.
2007-11-22 18:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah...hez a hornball creep
Drop him and get a restraining order
2007-11-22 18:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by FK 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A hornball
2007-11-22 18:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋