I have this one friend, what should i do?

Question

there is this one girl i know and she is one of my friends. she is a freshmen and im a sophmore if that helps anyway. my friends told me that she said to them that she likes me and was wondering if i would go out with her. and when im with her with a group of friends she stares at me sometimes and she acts shy around me. she is a good friend we can talk about anything. she is attractive to. but how do i ask her out and what things should i do on the first date and all.

Answer 1

Just ask her to do something simple, like going to see a movie, or even hanging out at the mall. Offer to pay for her food, and just act the way you normally would around her. Have fun.

Answer 2

Quite simply, don't make it into a big deal. The more you make it into some kind of big thing, the worse and more awkward it'll get. You like how it is with her now, you can talk to her, hang out with her... you don't need to plan some big first date where neither of you will feel comfortable. Just say "hey wanna go to a movie" and then go. Maybe hold her hand during the movie if you want, but you don't have to. Take her out to eat afterwards. Just hang out, and talk, and have fun like you normally do.

Answer 3

well you want to gauge/scale/find out what she thinks is confidence. girls like confidence and if you talk wrong i.e. arrogant rather than confident you will drive her away. you should be confident around her but always kind. if you're looking to ask her out DONT use pick-up lines. just have something nice to say, a simple comment and ask her when she has some free time. also you dont want to "set off" her shyness, exp. you dont want her to feel nervous. like if she's shy and you just rip it out into the open see... not so good you want to let her mention something that pertains to the subject of going out or who people like or who she likes ect. so that it will fall smothely into the conversation. thats about all and dont forget

dont say anything rude
use common sense

Answer 4

Hi. Funny you should ask this, I just went threw this yesterday with a GUY friend of mine (I'm a girl btw). So yeah.

My guy friend is always shy around me, and does everything you explained that your friend does when in groups of people, or alone. So I just casually walked up to him yesterday in the grocery store (like I was just going to say hi and hows work) but then I just blankly said "Would you like to go out and have a drink.?" [drink doesn't always = alcohol. I meant to go and have a coffee or something] and to my surprise he said yes! That SAME night we went out to Tim Hortons, had a box of timbits and a coffee each, and talked alot about out friendship and what would it be like to go one step further. We also looked carefully at what could go wrong if we had a relationship, and we worked out how so solve some of the problems if they were to arise. So I mean, think carefully about it first. Talk it over with your friend and make sure she knows what is going on (and all the risks - like losing your "close" friendship later on if you break up).

So yeah. Just some things to think about. Don't do anything to fancy for the first date. But don't be too cheap like McDonalds or anything. Haha. (Obviously - not like anyone would do that right...right?) Just ask her out plain and simple. [it's different for everyone, so try to personalize the date to something you know she likes and ask her for any ideas on where to go or what to do]. ((I don't recommend movies - for first dates - in case you want to talk, because you know, your not allowed to talk during movies - unless it's at home))

Love Shelley

OH and IMPORTANT:
Make sure to keep the openness "talk about everything" in your relationship. It will help alot! [I know, I dated a guy for 3 years and we told eachother everything, even the things that I got bored with about him] Just something else to keep in mind.

Answer 5

Just be yourself and tell her how you feel about her, if you know she likes you then what are you worried about?
Take her for a picnic or somewhere you can talk to her and get to know her as more than just a friend, and I dont mean bed her on the first date.

GOOD LUCK BUD!!!

Answer 6

Simply ask her if she would like to go on a "date" with you; make sure you explain to her what you mean by "date".

Decide together what you would like to do, and then just do what comes naturally. It's not hard; you'd be surprised.

Have fun,

Wotan

Answer 7

Take a chance and ask her out! she likes you doesn't she? i mean, your girlfriend can also be your best friend, so just take her to dinner or go to the movies. what you think is fun for dates.

Answer 8

Go for it!
lifes way to short.
if she likes you and you like her, then ask her out.
i'm a girl, and i know for a fact if i liked a guy
and he knew, i'd want HIM to make the move.

and on the first date:
-be nice
-be polite
-& most of all be yourself

hope that helped!

Answer 9

man i hate it when u little fools talk about "dates" u have to drive urself to a date, and pick up ur date...if u cant drive yet ur too young! if ur mom's gonna drive u...its a no go....besides why dont u 2 just go out or w/e u call it?

Answer 10

wen ur with her,tell her...soo,r u doin anything this friday?go watch a movie with herr