My boyfriend has been looking for job for over 4 months now , he has qualification in IT and he just want to work in IT and not just any job.So far i don't mind with that , but at the moment while he is not working ,he try to save money as well for holiday next year and he stay at home most of the time instead of hanging out with me in order to save money. I really thing this is silly but i still love him, I mean he prove to me he looks for job thats why i stay with him. IF you were in shoes, what would u do?
2007-11-22 01:05:10 · 11 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes get the job definitely
2007-11-22 01:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by IM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There does not seem to be a problem , so far if he would rather stay in then go out then that's OK , if it's OK with him really , he is being a man by thinking about saving when at the moment hes not working, but one thing that may be a problem is he may not find a job doing what it is he whats to and should open himself to more job opportunity's, but other than that you should do nothing, just keep loving him and supporting him.
2007-11-22 09:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by foxy_blue00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a min, is the problem that he doesn't have a job or that he won't hang out with you because he wants to save money? If it's the latter, then i think u shld show more support for his prudence by not making him spend money he can barely afford. Love is all about sacrifices, u have 2 be able to give up certain things to help him meet his goals. U can also help him out more by looking out for an IT job for him. Two good heads, they say, is better than one. This will make him feel u r more committed 2 d relationship & be an avenue 2 draw u two closer.
2007-11-22 09:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to realize that a dream job won't just come looking for him, and it may not be the first thing he finds, either. But since eating is a daily habit, he'll need money in the meantime, so accepting other work is necessary, character-building, and (more often than not) can wind up being a springboard to better opportunities. (This is how folks networked before computers).
2007-11-22 09:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You can be a one day millionaire, but being contented for a lifetime is better."
Maybe he's just having a hard time earning some money... or maybe he's saving money so that he can buy you something special this Holiday season. I don't get your hopes up because I might be wrong, but I guess your boyfriend is giving you something big for Christmas! Good luck on your relationship, just stick to your man if you still love him truly. Through thick & thins aryt? :)
2007-11-22 09:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by myuniquestyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get another job for the meantime whill looking for an IT job,tell him not to be mean he is still your boyfreind and not yet a husband that you need to support in any thing that he wants,and he might have you but he needs to get an income for himself.
2007-11-22 09:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a job or take a hike
2007-11-22 09:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Bellisima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get up off his butt an start looking for a job every place else.
2007-11-22 09:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Remi H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him get job
2007-11-22 09:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be wid him and show him ur patience..... whn he get the sucess u both will enjoy...:):)
2007-11-22 09:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by kaps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋