so i asked him why do you push me away when i want to show you some affection he tells me im to tired but if someone has a party oh hes there no problem then he hangs out with these girls that i dont like
2007-11-21 23:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to hurt your feelings hunni but when do guys EVER say no?? i think he is either a) getting it else where b) wanting you to finish with him hence why hes hanging out with that girls or c) confused and doesnt know what he wants.
if i were you id make up your mind to see if you really want to be with a guy like that or someone that will treat you right i know what my answer would be straight away good luck
2007-11-21 23:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 female. I haven't had a man do that (yet) but I myself have stopped wanting sex. It is yes, because I am done with the guy. I have stopped the sex then stopped the relationship as soon as I felt strong enough to - or found someone to crush on. For me when this happens there isn't much a person can do to get what we had back. If they left me I may take them back but only for myself because I just wasn't ready to be alone yet and I will still loose interest again!
2016-05-25 00:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by marti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that he is losing interest. Bu then, what about areas of your relationship? Any non-sexual romance still there? If yes, then maybe he's still interested in being with u. I think you should investigate & find out if he's cheating. If he is not, then introspect & find out if there's something u r not doing right in the relationship that could be turning me off u intimately. Also, u shld have a conversation, but not on his lack of interest in sex, he may get defensive about it if (am assuming here) he's having some medical problem.
2007-11-21 23:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay your avatar threw me at first. Sounds like he is losing interest. Don't buy into this type of relationship. If it is starting like this it is going nowhere, and it is time for a change. If he's looking at going to a new girl, then find a new guy. Good luck
2007-11-21 23:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound like a feminist... but girlfriend, your man's dumb as dirt, you sure picked a looser, what were you drinking, snorting and injecting yourself when you decided to be with him? He's a douche, plain and simple, he has no sense of honor towards his own blood(the baby), no sense of duty towards his family and absolutely no morality if he does what you think he's doing.
2007-11-21 23:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this boy is haveing sex with some one and he dose not love you anymore so i tell you girl fine some one els and move on with your live and have fun.or may be you the not give him the way he want that why he is have it with some one els
2007-11-21 23:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your problem is communication. Something happened betwen you and boyfriend. May be he was tired, so he doesn't like to sex with you, or he have another girl.
So, keep comunicated.
2007-11-21 23:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by maria a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's thinking of moving on. Time for some serious discussions about the future of your relationship!
2007-11-21 23:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a red flag if he is hanging out with other girls.
That definitely means that his affection is going somewhere else.
2007-11-21 23:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your bf's an immature a**hole. He isnt man enough to tell u that he isnt into u anymore. Give him the finger and walk off. You deserve so much better.
2007-11-21 23:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋