i know her parents are fine with me as long as im muslim. and i love her to death and i would do anything to be with her. but my family doesnt approve of me converting. im columbian and she's pakistani. but if i had to pick b/w my parents or her, i'd pick her.
2007-11-21 20:08:19 · 21 answers · asked by ... 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i've known her family for the past 10 years. i went to middle school with her, high school and then college.
2007-11-21 20:13:24 · update #1
You know hun, I was a christian for longer than I can remember now and I must tell you that your family is just saying this to scare you out of doing it. My family could not think of me becoming a Muslim because they thought that if I did that I would be doing it to please my husband and forgive me for the words but those sons of biotches don't look at what horrible things they do in life they wanna talk about people, about a religion they don't even know. Ugh, glad I got that out, anyway, I think your religion is your choice and your family should accept you no matter what, and you should have a serious conversation qith them about the subject and if they don't want to accept it that is their problem, but you should show them that you are a mature person and not do the choosing thing because in my opinion that is so kintergarden. What I did was, I told my family I became a Muslim and that was it, it is my choice, I told them that I would always be there for them, that I love them no matter what, but when it come to my religion, my marriage, my life, they should stay out of it, because they have not even taken the time to know my husband, so why judge someone they don't know. If you want to judge people, judge them for what you know, not for what you think you know!
Good luck hun!
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2007-11-22 09:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♂♥♀ & ♀♥♂ ∞! Love Oh Love ! ♫♥♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to Islam. Sister you are very lucky to embrace Islam. In Islam we love Allah the most and base all other loves on this love. Islam has allowed Muslims to marry people of the book only. So if you were married to a Christian or Jew and he had no objection with your converting to Islam then it was not necessary to get a divorce. But if you have already taken divorce and married to a Jew, you may continue with this relationship if you do not expect any objections from him. Some scholars say that this permission is only for Muslim males as according to them, women can be pressurized. To such ulemaa I say, do they know more than Allah (SWT)? Quran is the last and final word for a Muslim and not the opinion of any scholar which is at variance with Holy Quran. Muhammad Javed Iqbal
2016-05-25 00:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by nakita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ain't Muslim, no Muslim family will allow a non Muslim man to marry a daughter, it's forbidden in the Qu'ran. At least you don't have the circumcision to worry about if you convert.
2007-11-21 20:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to get married a muslim woman if you do not convert your religion to Islam as stated by her parents.As a good muslim parents they should comply to the holy Qur'an.In the Qur'an God spoke clearly that a muslim woman should get married with a muslim man. and oppositely..I think if you studied well Qur'an you can understand that Qur'an is a better ,logic and complete life guide than any other religion.
2007-11-21 20:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more can religion separates us? As long we understand each other beliefs and respect then, Why not Marry? I look at the positive things in life, Religions is one thing that separates us and love is the one thing that unites us, Which one is stronger in your life? For me Love has no limits and Religion do,.. Ask your self if she is willing to do the same? Sometimes Love makes us blind and stupid.. it does... And how important is her religion to her? And why do you have to convert to something to you don't believe? OK for Love... Love is not the only thing that makes marriages work, it's the foundation, but is not enough... You need to forget your parent ideas and she needs to do the same, You and her need time to focus, relax, think and then react....Is your Life, is time to make decisions....
2007-11-21 20:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by zeretus25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can marry her, but your future generation will face problems. . As a father do you like that, your son and/or daughter faces problems? Surely not.
After a few years you and your wife will also start facing problems due to different views.
Better, convert and make family homogeneous.
2007-11-21 20:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Wahidur Rahman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They require conversion.
Sorry, religious intolerance abounds in the fundamentalist faiths.
If you really loved her, I would advise marrying her without compromising your own belief system. Her parents will have to learn what it is like to live in the twenty first century.
2007-11-21 20:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man you are screwed, it won't work out, believe me, escpially if she suddenly gets religious, she will leave you since you only converted to be with her.
2007-11-21 20:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need is a tropical island away from the rest of the world, and it'll be Paradise.
2007-11-21 20:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
:-)
that's possible
Just follow the marry procedure according Islam syariah then all set.
There's a close relation belief betwen Jew and Islam
peace
2007-11-21 20:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jilan A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋