Here's the scene: A person (not one of your friends but more like an acquaintance) likes you but you don't like them. Even though this is the case, you say you want to be friends with them.
Do you think this means that you secretly hope the friendship will develop into something more, either so you won't have to fully disappoint that person when you reject them or for some other reason?
2007-11-21 18:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have had this said to me so many time before. Here let me tell you what it means..... It means, I think you are a nice person, who is funny, smart, nice, and have a wonderful heart. I do not find you attractive in any way however. I do not and could not see myself ever getting romantically involved with you. I wish I could and wish I did find you physically attractive, because I know you would be good to me and treat me very good and love me. I just do not have any romantic feelings for you at all. You are not what I consider to be physically attractive, sorry. .......There, that's what it means I know because I have been told this about 14 different times by girls in the past. These are things that they said to me at some point or that they told other people about me and I heard about it latter. I am actually still really good friends with 4 of these girls and now see them kinda like sisters. 2 of the girls I still know and am acquaintances with and here from a few times a year when they are in town. The fact is I am a wonderful guy, every woman’s dream man, not to brag but being honest. I am loving, responsible, kind, faithful, and honest. Yet the real and only reason they did not like me was that they were not attracted to me. Yes it hurts my feelings and makes me wish I was dead half the time. I am thankful that I was able to really be friends with them. I am in some ways getting the last laugh now. A few of them have married guys that treat them like crap, cheat on them, and so on. I feel so sorry for them, but at the same time I kinda see it as well, you could have had me, but you chose otherwise. I have even heard a few of them say they wished they had dated and gotten with me instead of who they ended up with. Hey rejection hurts no matter how you say it. The thing is, you have to be some what attracted to the person. No, you should not expect the person to always look like a model or that they have to be just beautiful, but you should find them attractive, nice, loving, kind, honest, and faithful. If the person is none of them to you then hey, just say sorry, your not my type. You should still be nice and good to that person though. And remember, the one you turn away now, may very well be the very one you wish you have latter. So that's why it's always good to be nice to them as long as they are nice to you. =)
2007-11-22 09:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone says LETS JUST BE FRIENDS, better just listen up hard, because its not likely to ever change.
Anyone who hangs in there accepting the JUST FRIENDS tag, is either really accepting that, or is hoping that things change in their favour.
You have to figure which it is...
2007-11-22 03:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be friends=no intimacy
Move on
2007-11-22 03:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by bahsat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a nice way of saying : youre ugly
2007-11-22 03:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by done with this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You aren't getting laid, the dude or gal hates you, lol.
2007-11-22 23:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a sweeter wat of rejecting a person so tht his/her feelings arn't completely hurt
2007-11-22 03:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by aparajita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋