Just wait...Wait until you are older, wiser, more married. It isn't just sex. There are pheromones and hormones that are being secreted that are produced to bring two people closer. After sex things get more complicated. Wait until you know exactly who you are and who you want to support you. If this guy cannot provide (everything, emotional, physical, spiritual, financial,etc.) you should not do this. Keep it smart, if he is carousing you into do this, don't. If he threatens to leave, let him.
2007-11-21 18:43:33
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answered by bobbo342 7
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Meg,
You sound young, although I applaud you for wanting to practice safe sex.
Definately a condom is a must.
There are other things you can use in addition to a condom that can give you even more protection against pregnancy.
Go to the drug store and look at the other things that are on the shelves near the condoms.
Without getting too graphic, there are things that you can use to block the sperm if it should happen to leak or the condom breaks.
If you would like to have a real discussion about this, please e-mail me through my profile. I would love to give you some more information and suggestions.
If I don't hear from you, I'll hope you got the answers you need and are being as safe as possible.
2007-11-22 02:48:06
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answered by Tauri Athena 2
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In all honesty, if you dont know the answer to this question, you shouldn't be having sex.
But to answer your question, its always best to double up. I've known many people who got pregnant on just the Pill (or other forms of female birth control) and those who have gotten pregnant by just using a condom. But really, even if you are on the pill or whatever, use a condom. Its just smart.
2007-11-22 02:43:14
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answered by Anonymous
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birth control is a good idea. i think birth control is more effective than condoms, but use both now thats EVEN better.
2007-11-22 03:44:53
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answered by Anonymous
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condom alone is fine. but yer bf would probly like it better if you took birth control.
2007-11-22 02:38:17
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answered by StrawberryMilk 1
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yes its okay, but don't take any pills because there are many side effects... it is better!!!
2007-11-22 02:40:19
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answered by stanley 2
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condom with spermicide should be alright.
2007-11-22 02:37:20
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answered by christianberliew 2
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condom is okey
2007-11-22 02:37:31
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answered by shakuz 1
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Here's your best answer: Don't do it. So not worth it and stupid anyway. Sorry for my blunt-ness...but that's me. It's a VERY dumb thing to do if you're even getting worried about getting pregnate. IT IS A STUPID, STUPID, STUPID UNENTELLIGENT THING TO DO!
2007-11-22 02:37:39
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answered by Starfire 3
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yeah
2007-11-22 02:35:29
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answered by lizrobledo 4
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