if its the parents job to teach sex ed ... how many should be sacked from parenthood for not doing their job?

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if its the parents job to teach sex ed ... how many should be sacked from parenthood for not doing their job

Judging by the opathetic level of sex ed in the UK and US.

Everyone says its their job only .00000000000000000001% of the uk parents actually does a good job unlike virtually all Dutch parents

SUCCESSFUL SEX ED COUNTRIES STATS AND INFO

http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/publications/factsheet/fsest.htm
http://www.nvsh.nl/english/index.htm

http://www.mistymedia.co.uk/blog/2005/09/29/dutch_sex_education/

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/index.html

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/dutch.html

http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/findoutmore.html

DUTCH SEX EDUCATION
www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/tcr/files/tcr/news/
europetour.xml#1119288090469::6998015254475574609
Blog of American sex educator on fact-finding tour round Europe, including trip to Netherlands


http://www.rutgersnissogroep.nl/English

compared to useless absteinance

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/04/13/AR2007041301003.html


HELPLINES FOR TEENAGERS TO ANSWER QUESTIONS

Ok this one is not from the best our sources. It’s actually from a site associates with hookers but this page is like a dictionary of terms associates with sex and what they mean which is useful. So copy the list and avoid the rest of the site if you want.

http://www.punterlink.co.uk/guide.htm
I.e. Russian = breast sex… get the idea?

Note the difference between the dutch system and uk...

uk is one hour after they are capable of having sex.

the dutch is hundreds of hours practically one a weeks worth from age 4 till 18

waiting for questions is like waiting till the want to know if its safe to step on live train tracks... after they tried it

its enough then the country changes, adopts the dutch system and we have less teen pregnancies wthen the dutch and no kids have to come here asking questions... to late

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It may be the parents job to teach sex ed but look at all the happy healthy children that are raised without it.


those were the ones who spent time at anuties for a medical proceedure involving a dirty coat hanger and often death or infertility or a shotgun marriage, or had an accident... a fatal one, or kicked into the street to die

Answer 1

sexual education begins as young as age 2. at this age its identifying parts boys have a penis girls have a vagina

teach your kids the proper names for starters, teach your kids modesty. this needs to start at birth now adays halter tops and short shorts are even on babies/ sure they look cute on the rack. but they arent its advertising these innocent babies as sexual objects to the pedophile standing in aisle three
cover your kids up shorts middle of the thigh to the knee. t shirts or fully covering tanks. high collars. there is no reason for a 5 year old girl wearing a belly shirt and a micro miini but they make them and parents sadly buy them.it sickens me and again this is a reason child rapes are so high.

3rd. comes in at or around puberty. around age 8. parents need to get it out of their head and yes i am a mother. that sex is bad. if i dont tell them they wont know or try. yes they will and alot sooner. talk to your kids. both genders with your spouse or the dad by age 8. teach them what both sexes go through. there are sooo many men out there i would love to smack the parents of. there is no reason to be afraid of a box of pads or tampons.i promise they wont attack you.if men understood what they were and how there used it wouldnt be so bad. girls need to be taught about erections the different types also. like morning wood a pee one and a sexual one/

kids need to be taught around 12-13 on how to use a condom properly. and be told if your gonna have sex use one the right way everytime.

both girls and boys need to be taught about all of the different stds and birth control options

the school programs can help here and with body changes for boys and girls

all parents the world over need to keep and open dialog with their kids. never act nervous it will make your kids think you dfont want to talk about this.

if we as parents took the initiative and talked to our kids often and as young as 2-3 most of the teen sex problems would go down. if need be once they hit teen years talk to your kids friends yes it will offend some but these kids need better info.

yahoo answers isnt the best place but as we see every single day you have girls as young as 10 asking am i pregnant this scares me.

another thing know who your child is with dont allow your child to go anywhere alone until age 16. protect your kids.

knowing where your kids are and who they are with is also important in sex education

Answer 2

Parents want to delay their children becoming adults. They want them to not have sex in their life time some times because they see them as they were when they were tiny kids.

Some parents see Sex Ed as an opening to have sex.

They would like to control and inhibit their children's sex lives.

Usually they are not at all thinking, their mind is on " OMG! I don't want my kid haveing Sex,.. OMG,.. don't have Sex... no sex... no sex... no no no!" So their external reaction is "NO! No, Sex Ed!" when they have to battle things "I will teach them! No, Sex Ed at school...~ (with the horney teens stareing at them)."

They then do not follow through with this. They weren't seriously thinking. They plan to never teach their children.

The Difference between someone haveign Sex Ed and not haveing Sex Ed is quite the oposite of what's in the mind of a parent. If people are not taught they are normal and to control themselves then they go looking into things and this usually comes down to experimenting with others. The people outside of school that are ready and willing to teach "children" are often Pediophiles. As a result the source of knowledge i the last year od Middle School is a girl that's been haveing sex with a 25-45 year old man, who claims if you have alot of sex your period will stop but she doesn't know why she is gaining weight. (I've seen it).


From what I have seen bounceing around between so many schools,.. I think Sex Ed needs to be taught in Elementary School. That is actually when children become Sexually interested and Sexually active. It may start off with 3 couples and a few girls being raped by pediophiles. But it spreads, as does disease and pregnancy. As a result I have been in schools where most of the girls had had atleast 3 Prenancies by the time they were 16.

From what I have seen in other Countries, it's the Countries they are open about Sex, Gender, and Addictions that have the least problems like STDs & Teenage Pregnancies. Sex is not a Taboo thing and it isn't used to rebel against parents. There is no need to experiment because they have acsess to results.

Answer 3

Unfortunately there is no such thing as a licence to have kids - if there was most of the parents out there would fail the test and not have kids.

Sex education starts when the kids are little and is really easy as long as you are open and honest. Having large families or small families is not part of the sex education message - sex education is about teaching children about their bodies, their choices, and how to keep safe.

I always say that if you can't name it then don't play with it - and both of my nephews (which have been raised in a joint custody arrangement) knew about sex and body parts by the time that they were 6 or so. You don't have to give them a text book at that age, you just answer questions and give them age appropriate information.

Answer 4

It may be the parents job to teach sex ed but look at all the happy healthy children that are raised without it.

Hell, a hundred years ago sex was taboo and never talked about but yet somehow parents then were considered to have done a good job.

Parenting is equipping children to live in an ever changing world and being a well and rounded person, sex isnt everything

Answer 5

Give us a break! The job doesn't consist SOLELY of telling our kids where babies come from.

The problem with telling your own kids the facts of life, is that they get a mental picture of mum and dad 'at it'. This is very embarrassing for the child. If another close relative can do the explaining, then all the better.

My kids all got explanations at school in single-sex classes; and although I was always happy to answer questions (we have a rather good pop-up book with anatomical diagrams), I'm not going to force my kids to sit and listen to me explain where they came from. The gooseberry bush story would get more attractive by the moment.

Answer 6

I always thought that Dutch families were Huge.
Maybe they skip the chapter on Birth Control

Answer 7

You have repeated this question several times. This is against the guidelines.

Answer 8

My parents didnt talk to me about sex. I learned from porn and talking with friends. For some reason I knew right from wrong.

Answer 9

What is your problem? You continue to ask these questions over and over again. ENOUGH