its been like 1 1/2 years ago and we dated for like 4 months then i broke up with him for basically no reason at all.... almost as soon as we broke up i realized i cared for him and missed him... he even came back around and tried to work things out but i had to much pride and i was dumb and didnt take him back. so he moved to another state and i have had boyfriends since then but i cant get him outta my head...
well we talk everynight online but i have not told him how i feel towards him should i tell him and how?
we are both single and i would love to get back with but he lives like 6 hours from me what should i do?
since he ims mw everynight as soon as i get online does he feel the same?
2007-11-21 16:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what clues can i look for in his messages to tell if he still cares for me?
2007-11-21 16:46:14 · update #1
A) You can either ask him yourself, which is really the only way you'll ever know for sure. B) If you want to stop these feelings, you'll have to just cut yourself off from him so that you can finally get over him.
2007-11-21 16:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by laconversacion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and think that this is the guy you
really want to be with other than you ex then you
should talk to him. What harm can it do? The thing
about relationships is to keep an open mind don't
have too much pride in not taking him back because
you'll just regret it. Try talking to him, find the right time
to talk to him even over IM if you wanted to. Just let him
know how you feel , who knows he may still have those
same feelings towards you but maybe too scared to make
the first move because when he did you turned him down
now its your turn to make the first move.
Good luck.
2007-11-22 00:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl !!! ya'll are both single so what do you have to lose ??? since you said before you had too much pride to take him back the last time, tell him over im! that will make it ALOT easier and he will prolly respond back within seconds !!! goodluck !!! lemme know how it goes =)
2007-11-22 00:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by socialdeelite1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ofcourse you still miss him...
you havent gotten over the doode yet. i mean you broke up for no reason. doesnt that tell you something. that meants feelings were lefted out in theopen and there was no closure involve....
i think you shoudl continue talking to him and ask him how he feels abotu you. tell him how you feel. ..... now about going back out with him im not sue because it is long distance.... and it will be hard... but if you think you can do it then go for it. =]
2007-11-22 00:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by kaycee says; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its u cant get over him cuz ur always talking to him n becuz u really like him.i had the same problem. well i suggest u tell him cuz im almost certain he fells the same way n if he does give it a shot.trust me i did the same thing and it worked out.im just letting u know not to let the distance be too much of a problem..dont give up if u really like him!!=]
good luk!!=]
2007-11-22 00:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by barbie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the guts to let all the people on Yahoo Q&A know about your feeling, than have the strength to tell the person yourself and see if he still feel the same for you. We on this blog can't answer, because we don't know the man................
2007-11-22 00:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LOVE HIM STILL AND BASICALLY SAID IT YOUR STUPID PRIDE. OPEN UP AND ASK HIM DOES HE LOVE YOU? POINTED QUESTION BUT IT TAKES IT OFF YOU--6 HOURS DRIVE IS NOT A LONG TIME DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASONS WE HAVE COMING UP.
ASK AND SEE WHAT HE SAYS MIGHT BE THERE BY THANKSGIVING DAY IF YOU HURRY?
WILL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU DO WHAT I SAID SO WHY YA READING THIS HUH?
2007-11-22 00:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! Tell him! if you don't you will always torture yourself wondering what could have happened! Just cut and paste the first three lines of your question and when you talk to him on line send that to him. He obviously cares about you a good amount to still be in touch with you after your immature mistakes, and at least you learned from them.
2007-11-22 00:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by yessca333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never miss the water until it runs dry..
..you will never know the importance of something..until you lose it..
confront him..tell him how'd you feel..if there's no point to regain the rel. then move on..
simply "choose" not to miss him..
2007-11-22 00:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ jhun ♠ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.
he must still care about you;
he sends you im every night.
take a chance;
just tell him how you feel.
exactly.
2007-11-22 00:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by ashleyanimatronik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋