we live in different cities so i'll most likely be doing it over the phone. so what should i say?
2007-11-21 16:28:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first, what is the reason you want to break up with your bf/gf?
if it is the distance..you tell him/her you are not the type of guy who can make the relationship grow while apart from each other..
if you found no reason to break her/him up..maybe you just need someone else..
2007-11-21 16:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ jhun ♠ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak the truth. You did not tell us why you wanted to break up with this person, but I think it may be the distance causing the distance. If you are close enough to meet with the person then by all means do so. You may find it easier to write first and discuss after you thoughts are clearly expressed.
If this person really counts on you for support please be careful you are not hiding behind the distance to make your point. Remember breaking up doesn't always mean you will not have a connection or friendship. If it only the distance that separates you, not other problems, then there may be reason to keep going.
2007-11-22 00:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Me-eee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is face to face as over the phone is very impersonal especially when breaking up with someone but just be calm and honest with the person your breaking it off with. Don't lie or make up some petty excuse why yur doing it, just tell them the truth and explain that it is not working for you. Just simply say if it is because of the distance "I'm very sorry but our situation the distance is not working for me anymore and I don't feel the same for you anymore. I hope we can be friends (if you still do want to remain friends)". But just tell them the truth and be honest.
2007-11-22 00:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dancegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you've had a fun run and you'll never forget or regret going out with this person but that it's time to break up.You don't want to get too attached and it would hurt more to break up later when the relationship would have gotten more serious.
2007-11-22 00:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by ............. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest about why you want to break up.
Be gentle, try to make it mutual. You're most likely gonna end up hurting the person so expect a large range of possible reactions.
Good luck!!!
2007-11-22 00:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by laconversacion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Your Partner
And Tell Them That You Want To Seperate
2007-11-22 00:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Romina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to go. As much as it hurts, it's the best way for someone to move on.
2007-11-22 00:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been great and everything but i want to break up with you its not you its me i need to be alone for a while and after that while see other people use those exact words and you will survive
2007-11-22 00:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell them why you think the relationship should be over. dont beat around the bush or try to sugar coat it. Just keep it real.
2007-11-22 00:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf or gf the truth.... that's the ONLY way to go to make things right
2007-11-22 00:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋