She telling me to backoff? Friends?? Or is she interested?? Looking For Player Advice ITS VERY LONG!!?

Question

1. I Called her cute couple of times, 1-2 times every couple of days.. to give her hints.
For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good
on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,
but doesnt seem like a "get out of my face" look or anything.

2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, i call her chubby
in a joking manner, she would laugh hit me in the arm, but i dont overdo it.

3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...
She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint
scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to
buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,
she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

4. The other day i asked if she could sing very well?? She said joking im like Alicia Keys, etc..
then she said we should hang out and go to a Karokae Bar (singing place) then i was kinda suprised..
looked at her for about 1-2 second, i said ok.. then right after i said that, she looked out of sync, panicked
and said and her *boyfriends name*, and 3-4 other ppl who work with us(she and i are 19 and the rest
of the workers are over 30+) which she try to play it off by laffing..

5. When we are working, and when im standing alone, (when no customers around) she would get near me..
Maybe im imagining things cause i like her too, but thats what i feel...

6. I never caught her looking at me, but when i look at the corner of my eyes sometimes shes looking at my direction.

7. She gives me subtle hints.. like saying i get mad talking about my boyfriend, god i want to hit him sometimes..

8. Hits my arms, puts her hands on my shoulder while passing by.. asking me what i ate, etc.


We are bot

We are both 19
I known her for about a week.
We work together ( im the owners son)
I KINDA know her boyfriend. (Who going to the army in 2 months its mandatory in S.Korea for 2 years.)


Is She Just being nice or is she interested??


Looking for Playa Advice only, someone who had alot of experience i personally dont want a girl to respond cause u guys tdont really know what the **** u want.

Answer 1

dude thats cold, going for a girl who is takin by a guy who is in the army no less. i get what your sayin but seems a bit low.

Answer 2

Hate to say but you're kinda coming on too strong. Flattery is nice but you've only known her a week. Cool it and just be normal. She's got a boyfriend. If you back off and if she is interested, she will come to you. (Like flirt and be more touchy, cause it sounds like she's a toucher.)

Get to know her a little better and then see if she'll go out with you but you're kinda coming off a little desperate because any opportunity you have you're putting yourself out as "available". You just need to be smoother... Don't act like she's the first hot thing you've ever seen. Like you're not needy for the company of a female. (Even if you have to lie...but be realistic in your lying)

BTW: joking or not no girl really likes to be called chubby.

Answer 3

Say homboi the boyfriend doesnt matter he might as not even be mentioned. Jus out of nowhere invite her to go do somthin with ya like catch a flick or somplace kewl and if she calles it a date then thats what it is.

Answer 4

I'm a girl. Yeah, she likes you, but she has a boyfriend. You shoudn't be messing with her, you're gonna ruin it with her and her boyfriend. And all you wanna do is tap that anyways. Bad, bad boy!

Answer 5

BOTH 19 AND IMPRESSIONABLE. DOES SHE LIKE YOU OR YOUR DAD IS THE OWNER STATUS?.

BOYFRIEND GOING OVERSEAS AND HAS NOT ASKED HER TO MARRY HIM IS A DEFINITE PLUS+

LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. IF YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOU HAVE ABOVE A LOT YOU LIKE HER AND SE IS INTERESTED IN YOU?

Answer 6

well duh she likes you. even though she has a bf. that is leaving she knows this. and you guys constanly flirt with each other... it's really common sense. when he leaves guess what going to happen? your coming into the picture.

Answer 7

flirt with her more. but you are in korea, and what you are doing isnt playing, your looking for a girlfriend.