I started on this site not too long ago. I kept getting these private messages from another user on here and we have been pretty hot and heavy on the messages. He wants me to buy a plane ticket and move in with him but he lives 300 miles away.
The thing is he really seems dreamy. I haven't seen him before but he said he looks like his avatar picture, which I must say looks pretty sexy. A little cartoony, but he says he looks good.
Now I know that this is risky but I don't have any money and he said he would take care of me and my babies.
Should I go? Should I bring a gun for protection?
I really want to be with him! What do I do?
2007-11-21 16:13:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said he can't come over to my town because he has too much work because he is a lawyer. So he wants me to meet him there
2007-11-21 16:29:36 · update #1
I am not a retard! I just want to be happy like everyone else! I can't help that I am a victim of love!
2007-11-21 16:33:24 · update #2
you need to go and just follow your heart!!! you need to seize the day and go get your prince. everybody on here is just jealous that you have found something wonderful and special, and there are just no words to describe the feelings you are probably feeling right now.
2007-11-21 16:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by danigrrl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not truly know someone until you have met them in person and have spent time with them. What a person seems to be online could be totally different from what they are in reality. There's a reason he hasn't sent you a real picture of himself, and tells you he looks like his avatar picture...and think about it...we all look pretty good as avatars! You are in love with a perception you have of him...not the real person he is!
You don't know anything about this guy, but you are willing to fly 300 miles WITH YOUR KIDS to move in with him?????!!!!! How rational does that really sound?
If you want to be with him, get to know him better online. Exchange real photos, talk on the phone, then after awhile arrange to meet in a public place in person. Carry on a long distance relationship if necessary, THEN decide if you really want to be with him.
He may be a great guy....but he could very well be the next serial killer and you are playing the easy victim right now. DON'T GO!!!!!!!!
2007-11-21 16:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, im not going to tell you no yet im not going to tell you yes either.
I dont know how old you are? How many babies do you have? Why dont you have job?
No one should just move 300 miles to be with someone. How do you know if he isnt a child molester?!?! or a rapist? You should wait at least 3 yrs..with visits ( maybe ). If you think its TRUE love then it can wait the 3 yrs to be able to get to know each other.
think about it, seriously...think about your kids... is it really necessary to move them 300 miles away to unknown place.
What happens if this guy decides to kick you out...you and your kids will be on the street with no money to go back " home".
consider everything BEFORE deciding...
if you cant wait to move in with him..at least give your kids to family members, while you decide for yourself if he is an okay guy before making your kids go thru that.
2007-11-21 16:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you want to be with an avatar? His assessment on his looks is self-serving. If he looks good, why did he not put out his picture? That way, he would have attracted a lot more victims. If he can take care of you and your babies, why isn't he buying the plane ticket? Why isn't he the one moving with you? Even if he does, don't go. He seems wacko. The fact that your doubting whether to go or not means that something's telling you something's awry. Listen to it. Or would you rather be the headline next morning?
2007-11-21 16:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG U DONT EVEN KNOW HIM!!!! dont even think about goin with this guy u dont kno him and u dont even kno what he looks like this is not the right thing to do at all the person could have two totally different personaltitys like on the computer he'll seem alll dreamy and he says hes hot but then u meet him for the first time wastin your money on a ticket and runnning away from your family and u see him and it turns out he's a freakin hobo livin out on the streets . People arent always what u seem and i think that you really need to realize that!!
2007-11-21 16:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Audrey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's in view that you're used to the healing of unhealthy boys. From what I have visible, given the option among a nasty boy and a pleasant man, the lady will pick the unhealthy boy. Maybe it's in view that she wishes to "tame" the Beast like Beauty did with the Beast reworking right into a Prince. Maybe in view that an competitive, macho moron makes her suppose included. Maybe she feels exact for being competent to have him quit being a participant in view that she is now in his existence. I am non-violent, dependable, sincere, honest, have a romantic streak and search dedication however I am no longer given a moment look. But it's k, in view that no less than I won't end up whatever I am no longer simply to draw the curiosity of a lady. However, for those who wish to run away, you must do exactly it now and retailer him the heartbreak and aggravation of getting to manage you leaving AFTER he comes to like you. Just do not ***** approximately no longer being competent to discover a tight man.
2016-09-05 11:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know better, since you have questions on whether you should go or not. i wouldnt run away with any girl i havent met in person and dated for awhile. i would highly recommend that you not run away with a gut that you havent even met in person, let alone dated for a few months. remember safety first. it would be real bad if you were to run away with this guy, and end up being his personal slave, and not able to talk to your family, or you family has to try and find out what happened to your body when you never contact them again. one more possibility is that you are taken to another country and sold into slavery, and yes it does happen all the time, and there is little anyone can do about it.
2007-11-21 16:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by richard b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, don't do it!!! If you REALLY want to and this is serious, meet in a neutral place, meaning not a place where he lives or where you live, and bring a friend or two. Have him be there alone (so you have the upper hand), and meet in a very public place. Make sure you tell a lot of people you're close to what you are doing and tell them a time that you are going to call them. If they don't hear from you at that time, then they should call the police.
2007-11-21 16:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
let that broke s.o.b stay right where he is.i can tell you the same sh@###t he did.do nont go.hell we all look good on line.im 6'3" 198lb.i have a nice ride.and i dont live at home with mom and dad.but i have a wife.think of your babies.and the stran you put on your self and others.have phone sex.rube oun out .it may not be the same but it's alote cheaper.OH yea make him pay the phone bill for a month and i bet his *** wont have nothing to do with you afterwords.my daughter met a jerk online and he is in jail becaus he hit.and bet her.any body can tell you what you want to hear.few well tell you what you need to hear. you do not need to put your self through that.
2007-11-21 16:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read this person's other questions. This is one sick puppy. In one question she describes her proclivity for black men and wonders why black women don't like her. In another she's running away.
The only thing consistent about this person is her (???) dishonesty. This is no little girl with a big problem but a BIG FRAUD trying to mess with good people's minds!
Check out her history before answering. She's already been reported tro ANSWER as a misrepresenter.
2007-11-21 16:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by innerbanks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋