i dont know how to start, ill tell you im a guy im 16 my best friends a girl shes 15, weve been friends for a long time, like 2 years, i like her more than i friend though id do anything for her. but she got this boyfriend and hes a complete dick hes not good for her at all and when shes with him i cant be around her shes like annoying, she acts so different. but when were alone hanging out shes like the most amazing person in the world. so one day i like hate her and dont even wanna talk to ehr but then the next shes the only person i want to talk to i dont know what to do but im gettin so sick of feeling all theese diffenrent emotions all the time. what should i do?
2007-11-21 16:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My biggest infatuation in high school could be attractive and repellent like this and it drove me crazy. I'm afraid the only way to avoid getting burned is to move away from the fire. I don't mean shut her out, but get some distance, at least so you don't have to be around her boyfriend. It's really painful seeing decent people be schizophrenic like this but there's nothing you can do about it but continue being a good friend and hope she comes around.
2007-11-21 19:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. My best friend's boyfriend was a complete jerk. He was racist, controlling, and very demanding. I told her how I felt about him. So has her parents and several of her other friends. If she really likes this guy, she won't care what you say about him. He can do no wrong in her eyes. Once I told her, though, I felt better.. I felt like a weight was lifted off of me..
2007-11-22 00:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by head in the clouds... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes your friend so that mean she should be understanding till her your true feelings
2007-11-22 00:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋