We were about to get married... when i found him delaying marriage for no reasons i tried finding out what the reason is.. I found he told me his fake identity and everything even the status.. he is already married... am shocked and unable to manage myself after seeing the truth.. we had been very intimate....he is still telling me that he did not lie... i have proofs...how to save myself.
2007-11-21 16:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MARRY SOME ONE ELSE
2007-11-21 16:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by sagarukin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a look at this situation and say "whew, I dodged a bullet" and thank your lucky stars that this relationship is over so you can meet a man who is worthy of you. I know you say you love him, but I don't get why you would want to be with someone the way you describe him. He does not sound like a keeper. 1. He believes he is always right 2. He hurts me 3. He acts like a selfish spoiled child 4. He has never had to really work hard for anything 5. He physically abused his sister. The way you handle people like him is you cut them out of your life. If you are with someone who as you described as frequently confronting him about the wrong things that he does in life...that is not someone who you should choose to sleep next to in the same bed for the next 60 years of your life. Have a much higher standard of what you will accept as your life mate than anyone else. Everyone else goes home. You have to share a bed with your spouse for the rest of your life.
2016-05-24 23:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were about to marry a guy who already has a wife? I would be infuriated. (Oh I feel so used) That's not a relationship you'd wanna stay in, trust me. It's nothing but trouble.
2007-11-21 16:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zindagi,
So sorry you got deceived like this.
You come first. Take care of yourself.
Detach yourself from this creep.
Don't pick up his calls.
Don't answer emails or IMs.
Make your life for yourself.
Be sure you are safe.
Start to live for yourself again.
You can do this.
You need to do this - for you.
Thinking of you,
2007-11-21 16:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by ceviche queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things like that can be devastating. But that's just part of life. You will get over him. He is a scum bag and you will find a decent man one day.
2007-11-21 16:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Phillip M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave the guy.........
a relatinship grows only when its foundation is based on truth.....
and the matter of fact that he lied 2 u......shows his character......
even if he marries u.....b sure what he did to his x wife.....
he would do the same 2 u......
do urslf a faour move on..........u deserve better......
best of luck
2007-11-21 21:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your breath.....he might be willing to marry you but he is not not marrying you because he is married......ask him if he is ready to marry you if he would have unmarried...If his answer is yes then be sure he loves you...but you have start your life again...
2007-11-21 18:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by choco_blast4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yrself by dumpping him?
2007-11-21 16:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back dear, u can marry someone else, u can find many.
2007-11-21 17:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by ^^//^^@@@@----- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him dear ASAp.........
n ur family do they know this??? u have to take care of urself and ur family to....
2007-11-21 16:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋