im 5'6", 36 C chest, 29" waist, 36" hips. i dont have thighs that dont touch, but they arent too big either. i like them. im super nice to everyone and always are laughing and smiling. people say i should be more pushier. for example i let people go in front of me out of a door, people say i should push through. im approachable, i always smile like i said before. i always talk to people and introduce myself. i like to know people. im okay looking, people say i have a real cute face? im a junior IN high school. i seem to get attention from guys, but mostly just flirting, but it never goes further. why?
2007-11-21 13:05:43 · 21 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u sound like a really lovely girl. I think the problem is that the guys dont see wats really in front of them at that high school of your. For one thing its not ur body image that should be changing, actually u dont need to change anything. ur an alright person and the guys over at your high school just dont see wats really in front of them. Ull be fine there should be one guy thats out there that finds u attractive. Take care and i hope this helps :)
2007-11-21 13:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Luke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience, sunny, patience. Your day will come. There's nothing wrong with your measurements! And there's nothing wrong with being nice! Stay away from those morons who tell you to be pushier. Trust yourself, and continue to be the nice, cute girl with thighs that you like. Keep flirting and letting guys know you're interested, and it will be fine. Don't put pressure on yourself, or doubt yourself. Keep laughing and smiling. The world needs more of that! The world does NOT need more pushy people! Ok? (:
2007-11-21 13:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice person. but maybe they do not know you very well as yet, give them time. and no you do not have to be a pushier, if all people were the same, could you imagine all of them trying to get ahead of the others to get out the door. it would be a mess. so be yourself, it will not hurt to wait if need be. you do sound as the type of girl I was looking for in school. so you will meet some soon, do not rush it give them time to get to know you. Take Care.
2007-11-21 13:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because all the guys see you more as a friend than a girlfriend? I laughed when I read your question because I'm in the exact same boat! I go to a smaller school we've all practically known each other since kindergarten.. it's hard to try and be something else with them because you've always been just friends. I could be way wrong with your case, but this is mine. Maybe it's helpful?
2007-11-21 13:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Luilui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm obviously a girl, and I'm NOT le.sbian, I just want you answer your question. Maybe it's because they just want to flirt cause they think you are cute. Sometimes guys just go for girls to get something out of it, like you know, inappropriate stuff. And from your chest measurements maybe that's what they want(to look at them or something). Guys can be sick like that. But you seem like a very nice person to hang out with.
2007-11-21 13:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sunny: Take some WEIGHT OFF! You are probably too FAT! (you conveniently failed to mention your truthful WEIGHT) Most Young Men wish for a Slim & Trim Athletic Body! Try being a little more "mysterious"! Be sophisticated, kewl & calm. You sound like you try TOO Hard to always smile & push introductions. Are you too Opinionated? That turns most people OFF! When in doubt? Show us your 36 C RACK! :-) Good Luck Sunny! Just Have FUN Growing Up!
2016-05-24 23:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have plenty of time. Don't worry so much about looks, you should want someone to like you for more then just that! Looks fade, who you are is forever. Concentrate on school and it will happen when you least expect it. Trust me when I say relationships are better when your older.
2007-11-21 13:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jaime K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young. there are still things that you will experience. having men in your life is not really a MUST at your age. you actually have a good measurement so you can attract men.don't worry maybe God has other plans for you. just continue your good personality you'll find better guys in the real world.
2007-11-21 13:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by knowmudz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are being hard on yourself- but really, don't worry about it. You should just enjoy life and being you. Have fun with friends and family. Start working on getting attention later when you are in sr high- or college.
2007-11-21 13:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if there's flirting, maybe you should follow up with maybe finding a guy that your interested in, and go after him! Don't just let the guys go to you. It is alright for you to go after them you know!
2007-11-21 13:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by gcluney99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋