I called him and told him i needed to talk to him..
I told him not to get mad that it was about a guy that was asking me for my number...i didnt even finish telling him and he got mad..so i got mad and i didnt even finish telling him..for the first time i was trying to be honest and tell him that a guy ask me for my number and that he was flirting with me.Why couldnt he just reacted normal i didnt gave him my number, but i didnt finish telling him because he got mad...so then i told him to leave me alone,he pushed me really hard i felt bad and i didnt talk to him i was ignoring him because it hurt that he pushed me..Then later on he grab me by my shirt and pulled me towards him really ugly i thought he was going to hit me but he just threw me .. Then we started arguing and i told him to leave that i didnt want to see him and he told me i didnt know him yet that he will kill me if he had too..i dont know if he really mean it but i dont like what he said..
2007-11-21 13:05:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not the first time he hits me..
he has hit me before but always
says he is sorry and promise me he is going to change and stupid me i believe him and i always end up taking him back
2007-11-21 13:06:43 · update #1
What do i do to be stronger than him?
I want to leave him forever...i just dont know how i dont want to regret it later on
When we are not fighting he is the greatest person!!THis is why iam so confused will he change someday?
2007-11-21 13:08:19 · update #2
Listen from personal experience with a possessive controlling munipulative jack ***.... I went through the same exact thing... And yes when we were not fighting he was wonderful.. but he will not change for you.. no matter how much he promises.. you have got to be smarter than him and respect yourself.. after all if you allow him to do it then he will just keep doing more and more cause you keep taking him back... I went for so long thinking it was my fault he was a douch but it wasn't... I finaly cut off all comunication... and i do mean all... as hard as it was and how badly i wanted to believe him i knew i had to keep him away.. if he threatens you then you need to go to the cops.. get a restraining order.. dont feel bad about it... do you think he feels bad when he treats you the way he does? not one bit, please get away from him... im telling you now to take my advice.. i've been there and done that and I will never ever let anyone treat me that way again... if u need to talk my email is ashleycummings07@yahoo.com
2007-11-21 13:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT stay with the person--he is an abuser and it will only get worse. Jealous boyfriends are the worst, and he will NOT get better without some serious intervention. I repeat, do NOT call him, see him, or anything!!
2007-11-21 21:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anna P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋