My parents are going through a divorece and i'm so SAD =(
What should i do to become happy again??
2007-11-21 13:03:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Divorce is very sad and heartbreaking.
It takes awhile for everyone to adjust so you have to give it time.
Just know that your parents love you no matter what and that it's sometimes best for them to be apart.
Try to keep yourself as busy as possible and not dwell on it all the time.Volunteering at something you're interested in can help a lot.Helping others really helps ourselves.
Talking also helps a lot.If you can confide in another family member or your clergyman,that would be very good for you.Also your school counsellor can help a great deal.
I wish you and your family the best.Time really is a great healer.
2007-11-21 13:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yu have to understand that they both love you but for some reason they don't love each other any longer. Perhaps they didn't talk to each other enough, were too busy doing other things to have time to be together or one of thousand of other reasons. You can see if they will agree to some counseling to try to solve their problems but if not, you have to accept that it is a decision they made and move on. You may have to decide which parent you will live with but make sure they understand that you love them both. I will give you a web site which may help you deal with this. If they were fighting a lot before deciding upon the divorce you may find that life becomes a little better that they divorced rather than continue to fight as long as you make sure that they do not put you in the center of their battles. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-21 21:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do to become happy again other than waiting. All I can tell you is life goes on.
2007-11-21 21:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't really say i have been through wat your going through but a perants break up is never a happy thing all you can do is stay out of it and support whatever they decide to do mabey it will work out for the best but just keep your head up high and think positive at least you will still see them both....GOOD LUCK AND BE HAPPY =]
2007-11-21 21:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of a happy place
2007-11-21 21:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by ShanTrey12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept that they are getting a divorce move on with your life
2007-11-21 21:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Holly Smith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST UNDERSTAND THAT THIS ISNT A SITUATION WHERE U NEED SOMETHING TO GET U HAPPY
THIS IS A PROCESS WHICH NEEDS TIME FOR U TO REALLY ACCEPT WAT IT GOIN ON.
2007-11-21 21:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by princesa mexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋