My mother is dying of cancer. Small cell lung cancer that has now spread to her brain. I was going to her house everyday and spending the night with her. We never got along and she mentally abused me all my life. She is all the family i have left. I had to stop staying there with her. I have a place with my girl friend.
2007-11-21 09:08:29 · 8 answers · asked by Clint Vincent 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I feel weak all day
2007-11-21 09:10:02 · update #1
I think you are just stressed out and feeling a little depressed about losing your mom. Even though you two haven't gotten along, you love her. Spending the night and going to her house everyday along with work ( i assume) is draining. I am not saying to stop visiting you really should. I would get checked out medically just in case there is something wrong. once the doc finds that your mom is dying he probably won't go much further into the exam. He'll probably just think it's depression. I hope you feel better and i will be thinking of you and your mother.
2007-11-21 12:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for the grief you are experiencing. You should go have an examination to make sure nothing is physically wrong with you.
I know you must be very confused. Its not wrong to love and grieve the loss of someone who has not met your needs.
Get closure with your mother and so after she is gone, you will have said your peace and be able to move on. If you cannot tell her face to face, write it to her. The loss you will feel after she passes will be hard. I know because I just lost my last living parent.
My mother too was very mentally abusive to me, It was so bad I didnt go to her funeral, but saying that, I also know how difficult her own life was and I dont hold anything against her. She had a terrible end, and irregardless, I still loved her.
2007-11-21 22:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing 'medically' wrong i doubt. You would be going thru anticipatory grief from your mum having cancer. It is mentally draining watching a loved one died from cancer. My Mum was diagnosed in may with kidney cancer, when discovered it had already spread to her liver and lung. She pasted away sept 7 after only a four month battle. I cared for my Mum however, we where like best friends. I lost all motivation, gave up work, and felt tired all day. I am 29, i think how you feel is normal but if in doubt go to your doctor. Contact me if you need support or info.
2007-11-21 18:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might have low blood sugar. Try eating a good breakfast, lunch and dinner and make sure you eat a high protein snack between each meal and before bed to see if that helps.
2007-11-21 17:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be diabetic. My husband was not diagnosed until he was in his 20s because he was always so active in high school with track and he was diagnosed initially as type II since he was diagnosed late in life; however, he is actually Type I and is on Lantus. Check with your doctor to run some tests.
2007-11-21 17:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Matarc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first let me say i am very sry about your mom my dad was very sick and still is i am a wreck and i cry and i am tired and achy and have no energy this is everyday i can relate i get headaches i am snappy but everyday i am fatiged and drained from when i go to bed to when i get up i feel the same awful and weak again i am sry about your mom
2007-11-21 20:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by puff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First get a blood test, there are numerous things that can be causing the problem. 2nd it well could be depression from your mothers situation
2007-11-21 17:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is going on is you are having minor depression signs.Hope that helps.Im really sorry your mom is dying. God bless her soul.
2007-11-21 17:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋