so lately my girlfrind has been cutting down on play between us..like we would play for a lil than she will be like "ok,that enough" rap my arm around her and just lay down...and when i would try agian she would laugh or avoid it which was odd because we are usually VERY active i am her first real boyfriend but she used to hookup with a guy from time to time before we met....i asked her why the slow down..and she said " I would go out to hook up with people because I really had no control but with you I have more control of what I want if that makes any sense Its a good thing though all together even if you suffer haha. I was always looking for something in hookups but with you I already found it" ...is this common or should i be worried?
2007-11-21 08:56:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a control thing. All women use it. Since you are not married, tell her you are taking off because you are too young to put up with that.
There is plenty of time for their manipulation after you get married.
2007-11-21 09:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a game for her now... she wants to see how far you're going to let her go.. if it upsets you tell her. If she's really not in the mood then respect that. Why don't you try not messing around like that for a bit to see what she says... If she starts becoming more distant in that area as well as others than you should be concerned..
2007-11-21 17:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cristina A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought abt that maybe she is slowing down because she really likes you. its a really good thing that she said that to you...
2007-11-21 17:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your taking this relationship serious then be worried, becouse its starting to be a game for her, thats a biiiiggg turn off. iff its for some fun in the sack then please wear protection, hehehe. good luck.......
2007-11-21 17:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by music4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋