some girl i like just got cheated on by her long term boyfriend. and he cheated on her with the girls bestfriend. and she still hangs out with him does that make sense to you
2007-11-21 08:56:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are avoiding the real question, which is:
Why are you still invested in this girl (whether in time, emotions, or whatever), when she has clearly indicated that she isn't worth the effort?
Don't feel bad, because for the longest time, I, too, was stuck in the social matrix... believing that the hotness of my girlfriend was some measure of my value as a human being. It is not until you break free of this, and start to pursue the women who are truly worthy, that you will benefit immensely. Date women who are good-looking AND have quality personalities, and you will never again worry that they "aren't as hot as other girls."
That's my $0.02 worth, anyway....
2007-11-21 15:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still hung around for a while. Not too sure why still to this day 6 yrs. later. I think it was such a big part of your life that it is hard to let that go if the other person keeps pulling you back into their life. She needs to find herself it has been gone for a long time, it used to be a they and now its a me. I hope she can move on from this guy and stop holding on to the past. It is doign mental damage to her she just doesn't know it yet.
2007-11-21 10:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by pink25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its not that shes dumb.. well maybe she is but its only becus she really loves her ex bf or maybe their still together, whatever there status is, she really likes him and is tring to forget that happened.. but the truth is he wont stop cheating on her and probably he thinks he can take advatage of her feelings anytime he wants now cus she wont break it off no matter what.. clearly she'll have to realize this on her own .
2007-11-21 09:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by sixxss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we r not dumb. we just look at things differently. it makes sense to me becuz she porbely still wants to be friends with him. wen a girl and guy break up most girls that i no still want to be friends with the guy hence y we still hang out with them.
2007-11-21 09:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by April M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have apologised to her . Girls are suckers for a good apology
2016-06-04 18:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't generalize. Your problem is with one girl who seems to be overly forgiving.
2007-11-21 09:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by prissytwin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make sense, but obviously she has low self-esteem and she is insecure about herself.
2007-11-21 08:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by diva9047 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋