I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month now, Darnel. At first I wasn't attracted to him at all and I didn't think he was attracted to me, I thought it was just friendly. I didn't realize he had feelings for me until a mutual friend of ours, Erica told me. I decided to have a open mind about it and began liking him more and more. I know he likes me because he has told me himself but he doesn't really show it. But I often question whether he still has feeling for me. and people also ask him if we are still talking.Just how he acts around me it just seems platonic and I am not the only one that has noticed it. I want that attention that I am use to getting like him touching my hair ,looking into my eyes etc. I also noticed that I feel like the third wheel when it is me Darnel and Erica hanging out . I realize that they are close but, I don't like that feeling. He also tells her everything that goes on btw us and I end finding thing out thru her instead of his mouth.
2007-11-21
07:52:58
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What should I do?
2007-11-21
07:53:40 ·
update #1
Stay away from Darnel for a week or so but stay in contact with Erica. I think you will get enough feed back from Erica to determine if Erica and Darnel have something going. If they do then you will have to face that problem sometime so it might just as well be now. If Darnel has any feeling for you he will be trying to contact you before the week or so is up but don`t oblige him because he will be easier to talk with after being denied your company for a few more days. To be honest with you I think Erica has used you from the beginning to get to be around Darnel more. Furthermore Darnel may have used you to show Erica that he might be attractive to other girls if she was not available.
2007-11-21 08:35:51
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answered by Mr. Un-couth 7
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Try setting up a date for just the two of you...no Erica around and see if you have any chemistry...if not, you are better off as friends.
2007-11-21 15:55:48
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answered by beaners1229 5
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i think that because his feelings are out in the open, he acts differently. just let nature take its course and do not label your relationship with him....just see where things go and do not be restricted by titles or labels.
a relationship is more than a title
2007-11-21 15:57:27
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answered by Anonymous
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always the guys look the girls, it dos not men they have filings for you,they think one thing only ,they Analiese the female if you are good in sex, and how to get you is very normal.is our existence,so you look this guy the same Way,their is no friendship between man and woman with out the sex.
2007-11-21 16:12:11
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answered by Anonymous
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blahblahblah,
Do what you want.
Sounds like he is more into her than you. Have some dignity and DECIDE what you want. Do you like how he is TREATING YOU? If not, tell him.
If you like him tell him. If you like being a 3rd wheel, continue. If you don't, stay home.
The truth is only one thing, Know that, and know how to DEAL with it. Baloney can be anything.
Personally, I wouldn't bother with him.
2007-11-21 16:00:42
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answered by Lottie W 6
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well 95% of guys cant just -be friends- u had 2 realize that
2007-11-21 15:56:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Then this is something you should be talking directly to him about. Good Luck.
2007-11-21 15:56:55
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answered by AF 1
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The question is not whether or not he likes you but...
do you like HIM?
2007-11-21 15:55:52
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answered by Avelyn 4
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communication is the key to any relationship.
2007-11-21 15:57:46
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answered by UnKnown 4
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ouch
2007-11-21 15:56:22
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answered by ☠ 3
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