i dont know how to act in front of the guy i like?

Question

i act different
i say stupid things
and i get really shy

help!

Answer 1

Relax, he is just a man. He gets nervous and does stupid stuff too, I'm willing to bet! Just keep telling yourself he's just a man, or a boy, whatever's appropriate and be yourself. Act like he's any other person and allow yourself to become comfortable with him.

Answer 2

It's really hard to get over the butterflies when talking to someone you like. You just have to keep in mind that he will have a much harder time developing a friendship/relationship with you if you get shy enough to do nothing. A good way to get better at that is to make an effort to talk to people that you wouldn't usually talk to, just to make small talk wherever you go (grocery store, etc. anywhere!), and that tends to help you participate in more difficult conversations, such as ones where you get your tongue tied ;) . Good luck!

Answer 3

We all do this, I do too. But my cure to this problem was, to pretend you don't really notice him and focus your mind on less stressing things, like what you're going to do this weekend, just things to keep your mind from letting out the worst part of you that you don't want him to see. Just calm down, and take a few deep breathes. It works. =] Hope it helps

Answer 4

Be yourself. If you are not sure what to say, don't say anything. He will realize you like him. The way you look at him can be louder than any words you say.

Answer 5

chanel5, Dear just be calm and be your genuine lovely self !

Answer 6

you are just nervous because you like him. Just be yourself and you will be fine.

Answer 7

well it is better than trying to act like someone your not ...just try to be ya self ....