Spanking techniques for discipline. Like how. Where. When. Bare bottom or clothed.?

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i really prefer not to spank my kids...but sometimes...i'll try every other technique(speaking to them...time out...no tv...etc) but they don't work...i mean when they are truly out of control

Answer 1

there isnt really a technique. its a swat on the bum when the child needs it, i dont care wear i am. if she is out of control in the shopping mall and need it, she is gonna get it. i dont pull pants down. its more of the shock factor to them, not to really hurt them.
Blabla, thumbs down. just cause you chose not to spank, some do, not a biggy, i was spanked, i graduated, i have 2 kids and a family, i work. would i be a better person today if i wasnt spanked? i highly doubt it. spanking isnt beating, there is a big difference there, and congrats to you if you dont spank, thats your choice and evryone has one.

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Spanking Techniques

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Spanking techniques for discipline. Like how. Where. When. Bare bottom or clothed.?

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Spanking Methods

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Most psychologists advise against spanking. Some of the reasons have already been mentioned by other responders. It models violence as a way to solve problems; it gives the impression that *you* are out of control; and it wastes an opportunity for learning. (I.e., the spanking doesn't encourage him to think about what he did wrong, how he hurt others, etc.)

Some variation of "time out" is usually the best punishment. The child should remain in the time-out chair for a minimum of five minutes. (Or, some say one minute for each year of age.) But after he has done his "minimum" time, he should remain in the chair until he's quiet and polite. Also he needs to be ready to discuss the reason for the punishment, apologize, and clean up any mess he has made.

Other good punishments are "grounding" and taking away privileges. Whatever punishment you choose, make sure it's something you can actually enforce. (Some parents, in anger, will yell "You're grounded for a year!" The child knows that's just a threat, and won't take it seriously. Or the parent might say "No TV," knowing that the child can watch all the TV he wants at the babysitter's or grandma's house.)

If the child is truly "out of control," and it's a situation where somebody might get hurt, you can gently restrain him until he calms down. To do that, sit him on your lap and wrap your arms and legs around him. If he is too old or too big for that, you might need to call law enforcement in the interest of safety. Obviously, if the child's is dangerously violent, attempting to spank him can cause lead to a brawl.

That being said, many parents still *do* believe in spanking, and probably won't be talked out of it. If you're one of those: Always spank the child on the (clothed) buttocks. That's safest, since the buttocks are well-padded. And use your hand, not a belt, wire, or stick.

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Spanking, preferably on the bare bottom when a reasonable amount of privacy is available, and preferably with an implement rather than the hand, is an effective disciplinary tool for most children. There is absolutely nothing sexual about a parent spanking their child.

Answer 7

It's not likely that any one methodical action would bring a child to discipline. Discipline comes with Trust. Any behavior, which is contradicting honesty, is likely to be accepted with Mistrust. An example for my point: if your employer is upset, with your work performance, and smacks you then you would want reprisal (example: duke it out, to sue, etc.). Children are learning subjects (subjective), but they are nearly superior in objectivity. However, grown-ups roll with the punches. Physical Consequences command objectivity like a bullwhip, like these: there are no subtle (and proper) manners as domestic violence. In adulthood, we look back upon those memories with bittersweet regards—even comedy. Often, the motivation for childhood misbehaviors are parental influence, like these: rage-argument and “I’m a consenting adult.” Violence is a helluva way to remind a kid of their age, but we wanted to teach it discipline. In closing, I won’t advise on a “how-to," but it's good that you asked.
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Peoples' plans don't always coincide, and your child's out-of-controlness has been a great example.

Answer 8

I am 15 and I know that spanking is NOT abuse if it is handled in the correct way....as for how things go in my house...my mom spanks me and my sister, but she uses it as a last resort. She usually waits until she has calmed down, then she will spank us several times on the rear. Mom's way of doing this is first she calms down, (usually we have been sent to our room) she comes to our room, closes the door, and then spanks us. She doesnt spank us in front of anyone, (only once, the last time that she spanked me, which was not long ago, she spanked me in front of my aunt, but i messed up really BIG) my mom also tells us that if we are going to act like children, she will punish us like children. BUT, she does only use this as a last resort. I in NO way resent my mom just b/c she spanks me, and just b/c others say that i am to old, and that it is abuse...give me a break!!

Answer 9

Somehow I doubt that you are truly wanting to know how to spank your children. Why do some people (mostly "fakes") ask if the child needs to be bare bottomed when, really, that is so inappropriate?

Answer 10

"spanking" is a form of PUNISHMENT.
"spanking" is not a form of discipline!

You should be disciplining your children ... ever since the time of conception and/or birth.

You should be teaching them, by words and deeds, how they can become self-disciplined.

And sometimes when not well-enough disciplined, then they may need to be PUNISHED -- by any of several methods, only one of which is "spanking"!
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Answer 11

do not wait until you are angry to spank. Set a rule, inform the children, and then when one is disobedient spank one to two swats with hand or your choice....do not yell do not get mad....if you are mad do not spank....explaing "the rule is no hitting your brother" then tell them "you are getting two swats" then count one and two patiently. then affirm child We do not hit our brother, I love you would you like to go play nicely now? and then send him to play....To Train Up a Child by Michael and Debi Pearl Only begin small at home where rules can be consistent and don't over do it on the rules...read the book and take from it what is beneficial to you then have some happy kids.....never take off the childs clothes to spank that is humiliating and obscene.