In this scenario: when a man led a girl on and then gets a new gf, is it better for the girl to comfront him about it or next time she sees him ignore him totally? Please help me out on this, I will be so grateful!!
2007-11-21 04:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by miki360 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please state if your ar a boy or a girl! I´d rather here from men by the way! sorry girls
2007-11-21 04:35:20 · update #1
Thank you SO much, you have given me so much courage, I was so horribly sad, I will ignore him so bad!! God bless you all!
By the way, gt500e1988 I loved your answer!
2007-11-21 04:43:45 · update #2
ignore him do not acknowledge him, it is the best thing to do it allows him to think that you werent into him in the first place. if you confront him he knows that you were into him and gives him a sense of comfort and an ego bigger than mine ( which is pretty big) theres nothing more hurtful to an ego than not acknowledging the persons actions.
and im a guy
2007-11-21 04:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by gt500e1988 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him totally. Confronting him will do no good. He'll probably say "Hey, we weren't officially boyfriend/girlfriend" or something to that effect, and if you push the issue he'll think you're a psycho hose-beast and tell you to get a life. Write this guy out of your life and move on. He's not worth it.
2007-11-21 12:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK. Maybe you should try a little of both! If he is willing to listen to you, then maybe its best to tell him how you really feel. Don't be rude when you do it though, or he won't want to talk about it. If he is a jerk that ignores you, the SCREW HIM. Ignore him. Act like he never existed! and yes, I am a man
2007-11-21 12:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Liam S 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing Just Contionue With Every Thing Because youll only get hurt
2007-11-21 12:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the first 2 answers. Ignore him, you dont need a man like that in your life, && a man like that doesnt even deserve your friendship.
2007-11-21 12:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'd say blow him out of the water on it, but be mature when you do. you don't want to turn it into a yelling match or he just won't give a $h!t. depends on the guy though, he may not care either way. he doesn't sound like his conscience is going to get to him either way from what he did previously. IMHO
2007-11-21 12:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Confront.
I would confront him so that he'd feel like a total asshole, then I'd go on my merry way and never come back.
Oh and I'm a girl.
2007-11-21 12:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you confront him - you validate that he got his 'hooks' into you.
***** him out to your girlfriends if you must un-load, but dont give him the satisfaction.
2007-11-21 12:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ignore him!
2007-11-21 12:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah!!!!
2007-11-21 12:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy R 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋