he always takes bus to work but most of the time when he misses the bus I have to drop him off. This morning he woke up and took shower. He takes 15-20 mins in shower. I knocked on a door and said to him to not to be late( because it happened so many times when he takes morning shower he always gets late). I made him tea and lunch. then he was looking for a sweater. I said wear the clean one which is hanging he started staring at it. I said fine wear whatever you want. Then he got all mad and started saying that ' you are disrespectful and now don't talk to me like that. Don't tell me what to do?"
My question is have I said anything wrong here. He tells me what to do or what not to do. I never took offense. He loves his work so there is no problem at work. My B-day is this Sunday and this is my first after marriage. But I feel that it is not going to be great.
Back to point Did I said anything disrespectful. I told what happened this morning. He didn;t even kiss me. It has never....
2007-11-21 04:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
happened. He even forgot his cell phone. I wasn't pushing him. When I took bus to work he always say things to me like that. Now what.
I don't wanna be his mommy. He always tells me things to do.
2007-11-21 04:20:52 · update #1
Well, it seems that you follow him all morning and tell him how long to shower, when to eat and what to wear.. So, you are in fact acting like his mother. That would be annoying but, if that's what you are after...
Give your husband some space... .Let him shower, eat and pick out his own clothing... If he misses a meal, or the bus or looks ridiculous than it's his fault and NOT yours.... If he's constantly ordereing you around and you like it.. Then by all means listen to what he says... However, don't expect the same in return.. He may not like you treating him like a child...
Oh have a happy birthday.... Good luck
2007-11-21 04:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so tell him what you told us! i dont think you said anything disrespectful, maybe he was just having a bad morning...happens to the best of us
2007-11-21 04:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by million$? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the reason
2007-11-22 03:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Temidayo O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋